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A few examples include s*x questions on askreddit, "this" comments, nolife powermods, jokes being more frequent than actual answers

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Needlessly censoring words like sex. It wasn’t necessary on Reddit and it certainly isn’t necessary now.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Censorship like that was introduced to make the platform appealing to advertisers. I'd say just don't give power over how to run the platform to advertisers.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I agree. It's absolutely absurd that would say something along the lines of "Fuck, I got r*ped, what do I do?"

I'm of the opinion that you shouldn't censor any words. If you feel the need to censor it, then just don't say it. If you want to discuss it, then be able to say it. You should be able to say something like "X called Y a nigger".

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I find it absolutely mind blowing that people are generally accepting that as okay on most social media platforms.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I can only assume that people don’t understand why it was brought in on YouTube and TikTok in the first place because so many people do it when it isn’t remotely necessary. If you make your living posting on social media, then fair enough, I understand you need to fall inline with the rules of the platform. But why the hell would you self censor posts you don’t make money from? Utterly ridiculous.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

All they know is that The Algorithm won't show their posts if they use those words. How anyone can understand that and not see how incredibly fucked up that is, though, I don't know.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (10 children)

I'd say people worrying about Karma.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

If you can't even get yourself to write the word sex, the questions on askreddit were probably not the issue..

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Outrage bait. Too much of reddit was stories and videos of people acting badly.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (21 children)

Reddit became too America focused. Most of the posts were about America or assumed everyone reading was American. It felt very exclusionary.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I think this will remain a problem on any platform that includes enough Americans. The general public in America just seems unaware of anything outside America.

I think this stems from their education system, what they (don't) broadcast on mass-media and how normal and even laudable they consider fanatical nationalism to be (did you know they require children to swear devotion to the nation state every day at school!?).

In any case, I don't think this is a problem that any platform that wants to include Americans can avoid.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Anyone who comments "this", "holup", or "came here to say this" can go fuck themselves.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

A few examples include s*x questions on askreddit

Says sex questions on askreddit were a problem

Doesn't even write the word sex

Yeah, I don't think the sex questions were the problem, mate.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Calling communities "master race" as in /r/pcmasterrace

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Making all these posts on Lemmy be about another site.

The community won't flourish if the only thing people are talking about is their social-media ex.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I think we need to give it some time. I was not there when Digg went bad but I'm assuming that in the early days of Reddit, there was a lot of discussion about Digg. Once Reddit reached a critical mass, posts about Digg died down.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

To make the ex metaphor. Talking shit about your ex is not productive but talking about what was wrong or didn't work can be very insightful. Entirely blocking your ex out of your mind is a pretty easy way to make the same mistakes again.

I can see why people think it's annoying but I think this is also a good thing. Talking about this helps people understand what they want to see in their communities or instances.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It's the currently trending topic for pretty much everyone here. It will die down by itself eventually as it becomes old news.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Censoring inoffensive words like sex.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes, thank you. Excessive prudishness and self censoring is always an indicator to me that a community is going a weird direction.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

TIFU -insert sex story that oddly sounds like a scene out of a fantasy here-

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm a linux developer of 25+ years and I'm permanently banned from /r/linux because I dared criticize systemd.

My answer is therefore: Power-tripping mods. Where mods are required, ensure the community has the ability to oust them.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Upside-down text for comments/replies with even the vaguest connection to Australia. Also, the "everything in Australia will kill you" meme has been done to death...

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I don't get the issue with sex questions. If people enjoy reading them and answering them why should anyone stop them. If you don't like them, don't click the thread.

[–] rarely 1 points 1 year ago

The word six is allowed. You dont need to self censor.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I might be in the minority, but shitpost memes like "I'll draw a shitty picture every day until x happens" or "I'll do this based on Y upvotes", and the "here's a random hotdog/Gatorade bottle everyday". I know I can probably just block these kinds of posts, I just never got the appeal of it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Dedication. In a world where not doing things is vastly easier than doing things, the fact that they would do anything is frankly, a marvel.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Some projects can be kind of interesting, most aren't though, and I can agree with the sentiment

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (5 children)

This is 100% old-man energy, but I dipped back over to reddit after a week or so and man did I forget how many completely random acronyms get thrown around there... FW, TIL, ELI5, FWIW, IANAL...

Don't even get me started on ETA, which should mean "estimated time of arrival", but has instead been used to mean "edit to add", even though just putting EDIT means the same thing??

I see that kind of stuff a lot less here, and I'm assuming it's a mix of older audience and smaller user base, but so far it's been so much nicer actually understanding what everyone is saying here.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

My favorite is "IAALBNYL" I AM A LAWYER, BUT NOT YOUR LAWYER lol

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Older audience will beat you with LOL, ROTFLMAO, RTFM N00B and GTFO!

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