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Hello friend. No experience with kilts, but if you're looking for general suggestions, Thai fishermen pants are another alternative clothing to keep cool in the summer. Here in Toronto, nobody bats an eye when I wear them during hot days. They're inexpensive and you can get them in v/a basic colors to match your wardrobe, but the sewing pattern is so simple you could also get someone to make them for you using whatever fabric you want. Here's a example image:
Kilts look cool. And in a major city, a man in a utilikilt shouldn't be the weirdest thing anyone would see on any given day.
I think it's a bit weird but it wouldn't bother me and would probably make me smile.
I think it depends on the retail environment, and how cosmopolitan the city is. If your customers are regularly conservative and up tight then I'd think twice.
Probably worth getting one and wearing it socially first. It will take time getting used to it, you don't want to go around flashing people, after all.
I'm in the Twin Cities Minnesota. I've never actually seen someone wear a utilikilt in the store but seeing people with beards wearing actual skirts and dresses is a weekly occurrence. I'm trying to not push too many boundaries though because I work in a part of the store that kids often shop in and I don't want Karens complaining about me.
As far as the getting used to it and not flashing anyone, in general that's a fantastic recommendation, but I'm trans and was a teenager in the early 2000s, I've worn much shorter skirts - it just wasn't super relevant to the original post because I've been on testosterone for over a decade and nobody can tell anymore. Also I'm taking the skirt cheat route and wearing compression shorts under it because I'll be climbing ladders in the back room during my shift.
Sounds like it's worth a shot if it's going to make you feel more comfortable. You could keep pants with you so you could change if it becomes a problem. Good luck if you go ahead with it.
i'm completely neutral. in a retail environment i'm really not sure whether i'd even notice, especially if it's already a hot day. you might get a lot of stupid questions from people who don't like anything outside of their norm though
Don't mind if I do! (Wearing my vintage utilikilt this very moment)
I have a hiking kilt from Mountain Hardware. It's extremely comfortable (especially in this heat wave), I've had it for a while, but I've been wearing it a lot since I recently broke my clavicle and needed something I could easily dress into.
Unfortunately it seems like they don't carry kilts anymore. They do have a purple down jacket that I'm seriously tempted by but I just don't need a new one this year.
Stumptown kilts. They're made like clothing rather than a costume. Super comfortable with a lot of storage.
I think the primary common trait of men who wear kilts is: they don't care what other people think.