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Office happy hours, client dinners and other after-hours work gatherings lose their luster as more people feel the pull of home

Patience for after-hours work socializing is wearing thin.

After an initial burst of postpandemic happy hours, rubber chicken dinners and mandatory office merriment, many employees are adopting a stricter 5:01-and-I’m-done attitude to their work schedules. More U.S. workers say they’re trying to draw thicker lines between work and the rest of life, and that often means clocking out and eschewing invites to socialize with co-workers. Corporate event planners say they’re already facing pushback for fall activities and any work-related functions that take place on weekends.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Hang with people I barely know on a personal level after work? Why would I do that? I've got another full-time job waiting for me: Life/parent. I barely have time for my own family, let alone a work 'family'.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

... In a (generally) mildly toxic environment where I feel judged and under appreciated?

Count me out.

Workplaces used to be a lot more casual.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

It can be beneficial to keep a good relationship with your coworkers. I've had more than a few opportunities come my way because I have a network of friends that I made at work.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The only people staying after work for any reason, be it social or overtime, are the parents avoiding their kids. They make everyone else look bad, but it's them who should be shamed.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is factually wrong. You just made a tremendously broad statement with no backing that's trivially proven untrue.

I used to socialize after work and neither me nor the majority had children.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

Are they gonna pay me for the time I spend at these "social events? No? Eat a bag o' dicks then.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I stay as long as possible because I don't want to go home to my abusive wife.

Sometimes I can't sleep on Sundays because I'm so excited to go to work the next day.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I wouldn't even consider a job that expects me do this shit.

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