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[–] [email protected] 76 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

I find it very useful to have my wife's full name in my contacts.

We are involved in a lot of community organizations, and it makes it super easy to just share her contact card with people.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

Now that you mention, maybe my brother shouldn't have saved his fiancé as "Suspected Spam". Weird to share.

[–] Sendpicsofsandwiches 72 points 5 days ago

My friend's daughter has her as "Spawn Point"

[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 days ago (1 children)

My girlfriend saved me as "DO NOT PICK UP [my name] [my birthday] [my field of study]" The DO NOT PICK UP part is from a time when I didn't have a flatrate for calls and she had... but that was like 5 years ago.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Having your birthday in your name field is kind of sweet of her

[–] [email protected] 40 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Interesting, I have my wife in my phone as Jennifer Wortman also

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 4 days ago (7 children)

All contacts on my phone are stored with their real full name including my wife, children and parents. Maybe it's my adhd but I would hate trying to find someone but can't remember how I saved their details.

[–] skulblaka 16 points 4 days ago

I started doing this more properly when I kept finding myself with contacts like "Jim Applebee's" and "McFucker" and having zero idea who they were actually ever attached to

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I also have all my contacts with full name sorted by last name. Just makes searching a contact easier, also that way you can tell Siri to call someone using their full name. You can just put in the contact details what your relationship is to that person and Siri will use that info. So you can just say to Siri “Call my wife” “Call my son” and still have them stored with their full name.

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[–] [email protected] 40 points 5 days ago (3 children)

That's a good thing. Means he never got rid of her as a contact, kept her since the first time they exchanged numbers!

I don't think I've ever updated anyone's name in my contacts lol My married friends are all still thier OG names.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

I finally put my sister in law in my phone with our now shared last name just today, since she texted me on my first phone that didn't just use google's backup on all my contacts and I had to look the number on my old phone and add her to this one.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago

I never update numbers. I realize when I see things like Danielle (Brothers name's gf).

He married her in 2019 and they have 2 kids now. Pretty safe to say I could have updated it. Just about every woman I know who got married and changed their last name, I never updated. I never delete numbers either, I don't actively talk to the 890 contacts in my phone, I may talk to 4. They just don't take up enough room to bother and who knows, maybe I go back to another town 10 years from now and call a random guy I remember. If we met up at bar it'd be like we had been hanging out the week before anyways.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago

My brother in law is still "[first name] sister's Boyfriend". They got married in 2013.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Fyi, if you're bad with names, I would HIGHLY recommend adding photos to your contacts, as you add them.

It helps hugely with putting names to faces. It also helps differentiate between people. E.g. When you have 5 marks in your phone, but can't remember the surname. Lastly, it helps when you are describing someone to someone else. Being able to easily pull up a photo of them simplifies things.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

A relatively crappier version of this is to add them middle names. Brassica Walmart Kale might look weird if they see it, but it will help you remember that you know Brassica Kale from Walmart. For older compatibility reasons, I used to store helpful middle names starting with a period, so it's easier to search for them (so Brassica .Walmart Kale). Addig photos is a great idea, I don't do it often enough (as long as they let you take a photo).

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 5 days ago (2 children)

"Wife #1"

Didn't take it well

[–] [email protected] 26 points 5 days ago (2 children)

As long as you list the other one as "Wife A" so that neither feels inferior.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

Or or, the fighting mongooses! That's a cool name!

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 days ago (1 children)

My rebuttal of "what, you wanna be #2" did nothing to ease the tension

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 days ago (6 children)

I was looking very carefully for a subtle spelling difference or something before realising that it is "bad" to use a person's name.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

But it's not really bad, right?

... right?

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago

Don't have a work phone?

You're in my phone as WORK XXXXX WORK

I know not to answer immediately.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago

I see the humor in this, but I am also exactly the kind of nerd that has correct data fields for everybody from my wife to my grandma and nice and nephews. In a text conversation it’s usually just profile picture with first name under it.

I suspect I’m not the only one, considering the audience.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 5 days ago (1 children)

The only correct way to list your spouse in your phone

[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I think that transcription is incorrect ;).

I think it’s pronounced more.

“MAAAAA WWWIIIIIIFFFFEEE”

[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I have two friends who have been a couple for 2 years and stiil both had each other's contacts as "name Japanese" because they met in a Japanese class.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Same here, never edited her contact in 15 years I think

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I editet my wifes last name when we married. She wanted to change her name, necessitating the hassle for me to edit her contact information

[–] RvTV95XBeo 6 points 4 days ago

Same! The lengths we go for the people we love...

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (3 children)

This is crazy. What kind of barbarian doesn't properly format contacts in a standardized and civilized way?!?

If he doesn't change it to "WORTMAN, Jennifer" very soon, that's ground for divorce.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Why not just add name onto Name and surname onto Surname fields?

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

People do regular maintensnce on their contacts?

I just noticed i've got each name x3 (exports & imports) and some of them last used 15 years ago.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

I just lost a dozen blood vessels ^^

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

Should have at least a middle initial, if not full middle name. Never know, might meet another Jennifer Wortman one day and it would probably be best to have some way of differentiating between the two. So you don't accidentally schedule a sex appointment with the other one and end up in the awkward position of either needing to cheat on your wife or break an appointment with 0 notice.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago

Full name is useful for searching and sorting.

But where’s the obvious joke about the triplets?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

I still call my SO by his first name. We are married. Is that weird?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago (4 children)

What else would you call them?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

Damn that's good. I'm stealing this.

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