Hey everyone,
So I’ve been dating my boyfriend for like 9 months now and I am naturally a planner (not because I really want to) and I’m finding myself getting annoyed during the week if my boyfriend doesn’t ask to do something after work. Now I know he is on his feet all day and recently he’s had to take the load of 2 other people who got fired at work. But, what’s bothering me is that we used to do weekday dates. I think the core of my annoyance is that it’s mostly me intiating little hangouts. I’m the one that gets the ball rolling. Now that isn’t to say he doesnt reciprocate in giving ideas because he does… he just doesn’t out right ask me “Hey, do you wanna come over tonight?” Or “Hey, wanna do something this weekend?” We more often then not always end up doing something but I guess my brain is stuck on him not being the one to initiate. Am I justified in this or do you guys think I just need to chill? He 9.5/10 times always says yes to hanging out when I initiate and he’s very present when we are together… so maybe I’m overthinking this.