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[–] [email protected] 58 points 1 month ago

Get high and scroll Lemmy, apparently

[–] [email protected] 52 points 1 month ago

Work to solve problems. Not on a fixed schedule, but my choosing.

Also, long walks and visiting people I like.

[–] [email protected] 47 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Work on Free Open Source Software. Seriously, I fucking love software engineering and I can't really imagine doing anything else with my life. In fact, that's kinda my current plan - work towards financial independence and then work on things that matter to me, on my own terms. I really hope I won't get burned out somewhere in the process.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Same here. I wanna study compsci, do some research into things I pick up as being interesting along the way, then work on FOSS for as much as I can (without burning myself out, or anything like that). The world doesn't appreciate FOSS enough, but it could very well be the future of computing, as our capitalistic society quickly gets fucked up :')

[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I'm a licensed electrician. I do construction for my job.

If I didn't need to work to support myself and my family, I'd offer my services as a licensed electrician to my community at-cost. I'd charge for materials, but not my own labor. Basically, just use the skills I have to support others in my community who could benefit from those skills.

But I also wouldn't work anything close to 40 hours/week.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It's really satisfying. I've done this a few times, fixing someone's home when they couldn't otherwise afford it is one of the biggest ways to make an impact on someone.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 month ago

I’d start with gardening, fishing, road tripping, camping, hiking, but I think that might eventually not be stimulating enough. I’d probably pickup a hobby that would enable artistic expression. Maybe pottery, or stained glass?

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago

Get on my bike and see how far it could take me. And when I was done with that I would go build bike trails for my community.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago

Get a proper sleep.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago

Painting, drawing. General arts. Travel. Eating adventures. Fitness. Electronics and automation. Programming. Health focus.

And I'd make my point and click adventure game. Finally.

The dream

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

I would do nothing while also not stressing out about doing nothing.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

"Know what I did yesterday? Nothing. I did nothing. And it was everything I thought it would be."

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Make music, write terrible sci-fi, and publish economics research (assuming we haven’t reached post-scarcity yet).

Basically I’d have time to actually dedicate myself to my hobbies.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago

Travel, camp, travel. Play with dog

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago (2 children)

All the things I do for fun and hobbies I would do a lot more. Which would likely be the following:

  • Exercise (running in the warm months and skiing in the cold)
  • TTRPGs (I might move from 1 day of the week into two, and assuming everyone else has the same deal play in-person instead of digitally)
  • Reading (books and more books)

But mostly I would work on living the permaculture / herbalism fantasy.

  • Do a lot more herbal formulation and
  • Maybe open the small apothecary to sell things at Art fairs and other makers markets.
  • Turn my urban yard into a full food forest to help grow some of my own food, and herbs. (I want to have an urban oasis of edible trees, bushes and other useful plants)
  • Volunteer more a local prairie restoration group that I have worked with in the past
  • Finally spend some time gorilla gardening on open lots and sides of alleyways around my neighborhood to spread the plant love.
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

do you want a list?! I have adhd and 1.324 different hobbies and projects in different stages of completeness. If I had free time I would get 200 more hobies and start 200 more project without finishing the ones before lol

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

I'm a software engineer so I'd probably seek a way to use my skills in a way that benefits people, possibly something tied to volunteering work I already do. And also contribute to some open source project.

I'd try to maintain a somewhat regular working schedule but with fewer hours per day than I currently spend at my job. Maybe I'd travel and work from different places.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

So many hobbies

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

I would work on open-source software and play games, which is what I already do, I'd just have more free time to do it.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

Volunteer at various non-profits. I am (sadly) one of those people that "need" to work in some capacity in order to fill fulfilled. I also need structure, which I'm not very good at building for myself. I need to be held accountable (such as being expected to show up to work at a certain time), and work has always helped me do that.

I'm about to leave my current job with no back-up plan, and while my savings and partner will provide for me for the rest of the year, I'm kinda dreading not having structure. I'll probably volunteer somewhere.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Play video games. Bake bread. Learn to code. Create music. Maybe create a game of my own some day. Release it 100% for free because all my needs are met.

... oh, and sex. Lots of sex. But I think that goes without saying

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

I'd like to think I'd actually do all the art I'm too fucking stressed to sit down and focus on. Maybe make a video game or two.

My long term wish has always been to fuck off to somewhere not-too-warm and tropical, and write stories from a place where I can see the sea.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

I'd love to keep working and volunteering. I'd still contribute to society and the social network that comes with it, but with none of the burden of having to earn money to survive.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

House in the middle of the woods, with internet connection. It's the weird eremite techno wizard life for me.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

You're describing retirement. And, boy have I spent a LOT of time thinking about what that looks like.

A lot of people have lists of things they'd do, see, learn, or be. I had one too, but it kept fucking changing depending on where I was in life and what my interests were.

Any list I had always felt restrictive. Here's where I ended up instead...

I would put my energy and attention only on the things that I want to put them on at any given time.

I guess some call that living in the moment, but I call it retirement.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

Work so that others can also have their needs met.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

I would spend a lot of time tending my garden, growing rare produce to share with the community, and crafting.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

DM or GM tabletop games for groups

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm terrified because I don't really have an answer.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

I think that's okay, because that just means your answer is something like "take some time to breathe and introspect about what I care about when I am given the space to care about stuff", or "try out a bunch of stuff I didn't have time or money for before, to see what seizes my passions".

I mean, it's not okay — it's a fucking injustice that so many of us are deprived of the opportunity to explore what we would do if we were free to live as we chose, but it's okay in the sense that it's not your fault, in case that's what you were feeling

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Ride my Motorcycle and brew beer. Then go work out. Hang with friends. Hike, swim, explore the world.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

I'd work on cars. And my house. It feels like I'm fighting entropy, I fix one thing and find 2 more problems in the process. But I know some of that is just the previous home owner doing a bunch of diy.

Learn to wood work and build furniture. I have a deep, deep loathing for flat pack furniture.

Garden. I'd love to have a proper garden.

Honestly. I'd just like to be rid of my anxiety over finances.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

That's my current situation after retiring a few years ago. I stay busy with personal software projects, running a weekly in-person D&D campaign and playing in others, cooking, 3d design and printing, Arduino/ESP and electronics, woodworking, reading, TV & movies, and random crafting and other stuff that comes up.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 weeks ago

I have ADHD and my hobby is collecting hobbies. I don’t typically get bored. I would likely need to do some side gig to supplement buying things for new hobbies.

[–] stringere 6 points 1 month ago

Judging by what I've seen lately: crime and opression to maintain my status because I only understand the world through the lenses of artficial scarcity and zero sum game theory.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

This depends. But based on how much I have, one of these:

Open a small bar/tapas place in my neighborhood.

Travel

Do what I do when not working - garden, read, exercise, take care of the land & the animals, go see live music.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

Create art. Writing screenplays and books. Painting, gardening, working out, traveling, seeing live music, volunteer with whatever great organization I happen to be into at the time. Spend more time in my community. Have children.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

Art and music.

Science research.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

Someone asked me this question recently and I had a minor existential crisis.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

I'd love to go back to school, not for better grades, but purely for learning. There are some interesting af fields out there!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (3 children)

You know that guy that makes videos about how to live with Neolithic technology? That.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Define basic needs.

Is that just food water shelter utilities Healthcare clothing?

Does it include entertainment?

Travel?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I achieved this 2 years ago. I spend my time rock climbing, travelling to rock climbing, hanging with friends, lifting, running, tackling little diy projects, working part time in a fun job to get some extra spending money, and trying to sleep with as many hot women as possible.

This is a lot of fun, and I highly recommend it.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

Pick up learning new languages and how to draw and make music. Create the things i think would be awesome but nobody else wants to and i cant because i dont have the money to learn efficently the skills required. Live in a nice little house in the woods with someone who loves me for who i am. Eat healthy and exercise.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Be a librarian. I always felt like being a custodian to knowledge was a noble pursuit, and I respect librarians alot for it. I never went into the field myself because I couldn't afford the schooling just to get a job that in my area, doesn’t pay very well. If pay wasn't a problem? Hoo boy!

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