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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

we don't even have to scream - i just want to know where the hell people even meet up any more

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Bars, gyms, dance clubs, events, etc

Depends on what kind of connection you're after.

Edit: rock climbing, coffee shops, bicycle rides, concerts, track days, etc etc
Be a regular somewhere.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

i hate all of these options, what else you got?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago

Cults are an option. You have more fun as a follower, but you make more money as a leader.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

How do you hate "events"? lol

Work is the only thing left, i guess.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Well yeah. The other commenter wanted to know where to meet people...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

yeah i want to know where to meet people without there being so many people around

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

i'm bored with those though.

are there any bar-gyms? that sounds like it could be worth trying

[–] Aurenkin 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

my moustache visits many bars

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

it isn't as bad as it sounds. i have aides.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

So ready to meet my seagull-coded future partner 😍

[–] vale 8 points 2 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago

You can join a shouting choir if you want.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mieskuoro_Huutajat

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

To anyone who hasn't tried it, I recommend getting drunk as hell, going into the woods and screaming as hard as you can in the early morning hours.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

It's called death metal, and it's art.