Am I the Asshole?

The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Party-Acadia-9904 on 2025-04-17 00:16:14.

My boyfriend and I (both 25M) live together. I get four weeks off paid time off a year and he gets five. Because of this I like to book two weeks per year at the same time as him and we'll take a trip or spend the week doing stuff together, and I'll book two weeks off to just be by myself and do shit I want to do.

I've done this as long as we've been together but have never explicitly said it out loud. This week he's off work and asked me why I didn't book the same week (I have next week off) and I told him how I like to alternate them. He got super offended and asked why I'm even with him if I don't want to spend time with him, but it's not that - I just like time to myself sometimes too.

Am I the asshole?