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transcriptA picture of the Ben Affleck Smoking meme, with the caption "Me seeing people on reddit telling other people to go to lemmy.world"

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[–] [email protected] 192 points 2 months ago (27 children)

Stop making good the enemy of perfect!

[–] [email protected] 71 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Yeah, anything to get them from reddit is good.

Plus, once they get a feel for Lemmy and the wider fediverse, they can then migrate their account elsewhere.

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[–] [email protected] 72 points 2 months ago (7 children)

The cold truth is that to onboard people in greater numbers you need a default instance recommendation. You just do. You absolutely cannot ask potential new users (many of which will - hopefully - be casual and not so tech savvy) to sit down and undertake a multi hour research project into finding an appropriate small instance for them. You cannot reasonably expect people to look into uptime, funding and defederation lists to make an informed decision about where to register. You just need them through the door and posting and commenting and voting.

Making a new account somewhere else is super easy and painless once they're already here. We just need to get them here.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (8 children)

It's too bad there isn't a way to just have one location for everyone to create an account, like a lemmy.com, and then the last step during account creationg is to select your preferred instance for the account, maybe from like a drop down list that has a small blurb about the rules and expectations for that instance and a list of top 10 hosted communities, and maybe even a random choice option, and then you can go back to that main area to switch your instance later if need be.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

When I first found Lemmy, it was through https://join-lemmy.org/ which is similar to what you are describing.

Though it recommended me to join lemmy.ml, and apparently it's a controversial one, so I don't know if that worked out well...

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

That's how I got in! Lemm.ee does just fine.

But yea, perhaps we could chat to the heads of lemmy.world to maybe pin an announcement to help other instances and help decentralisation. I wouldn't be surprised if they would agree to do that for the greater good.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Just tell them to go to your favourite instance. Easy.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

I don't see the issue with recommending a generic instance, if your intend is to convert the generic user. It certainly is a better experience than saying 'ok, so choose what you like from this list of instances' and they don't even know the implications or what that means.

The overcomplication of Lemmy is an issue, and this behavior tries to avoid that.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Can we recommend another generic instance? .world has a few problems plaguing it right now.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 months ago

a generic instance is what most users need to actually make the move, if they like it or understand it better later they might choose a different insurance later, if not who cares they can still interact with others.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Well it is lemmy.world, so it makes sense that it should contain everyone in the world /j

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (5 children)
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[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 months ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

lemmy.world does not allow the use of vpn to post. vpn is basic internet hygiene. do not go to lemmy.world if you care about that, our you will not be able to post.

you can join any federated instance instead.

one day later edit: i took my information from this post of a lemmy.world admin: https://lemmy.world/comment/12079632

I was made aware that users are able to post on lemmy.world while using a vpn. maybe their stance has changed?

aside from that, try to avoid joining the biggest instance and join smaller, federated instances instead. this reduces load and avoids centralization.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

vpn is basic internet hygiene

according to vpn companies

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 months ago (1 children)

What do you want them to do? Select an instance at random, to spread them out?

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

Yeah, this is just stupid. I wish a significant amount of redditors would go to lemmy.world

I mean, what do you want to tell them to join? Something called "mander.xyz"? "sopuli.xyz"? Maybe something like sh.itjust.works, jlai.lu or yall.theatl.social? I'd feel awkward enough telling them to join "Lemmy" then linking to lemm.ee. Sending them to lemmy.ml would just be cruel.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I picked lemmy.world because it sounded the least sus

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

"Lemmy is great, you can choose whatever instance you want! But fuck you if you choose that one."

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (4 children)

No, don't recommend that one. I don't care if you're on LW, its just not a great idea to recommend it to newcomers.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I was forced to go to Lemmy after the post-inauguration bloodbath, but Ive liked it a lot, more than Reddit in many ways. I was getting really tired of the bots, puns, Russian Propganda, novelty accounts, TROLLS, etc.

OTOH, I feel like I can speak much more freely on Lemmy. Even before I got permabanned, Reddits Free Speech mission had become non-existent.

The downside of Lemmy is that some of my favorite subs don't have an equivalent on Lemmy. For instance, the Reddit guitar subs are very active, but the few Lemmy guitar forums are nearly empty, with posts that are days, weeks, months, and even years, apart. I tried Googling "Lemmy Guitar" for ideas, and literally every link was about Motorhead.

So I welcome more quality Reddit immigrants, as long as all the Trolls stay over there.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Help build the guitar community, tell the people on reddit to come here instead. I will do the same.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I registered with blahaj first but I couldn't. Log in after a couple of months and never found a solution.

I came to Lemmy on my own but felt forced I to .World.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (2 children)

There are other generalist or niche instances beyond .world

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago

It's literally just the Lemmy arm of Reddit. Same rules, same mods, same centrist users.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago

Part of the problem is that there isn't a really good onboarding process that doesn't involve getting people to join smaller instances.

Based on dev comments, they seem happy with Lemmy staying small, so there isn't an organization pushing for an equal distribution of new members.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

It's one of the largest and one of the easiest to join. I'm certainly not going to suggest Pawb for 90% of people unless I know they are a furry, and I would never recommend .ml. SJW would be second, and I might suggest db0 if it doesn't make you fill out an essay to join (I haven't made an account there).

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (2 children)

First post on Lemmy! and oh my word… never seen such an eclectic mix of flavours of people, positions and politics in a long time.

This decentralised thing could actually be a good thing: pulls people away from bubbles and echo chambers!

Just remember to play nice :)

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