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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Absolutely. Both me and my siblings. My parents were in an okay spot at this point, but they supported us to do far better.

Times were pretty borked compared to now, at least in this country.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

hell no. At least they had a car, a mobile home, and prospects for the future

[–] ephrin 1 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Better: I live near the sea so I can easily cycle to the sea for a swim in my lunch break. My PC is a lot better than the one my dad had at the time and relative to inflation costs a lot less, even without inflation it isn't that much more. Worse: Pretty much every other way. I guess my job is safer but we both have to work while my mum didn't have to work. We don't have kids either.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

I am very much so … but that’s only because both my parents were shithead drug addicts in their 20s. My mom got in AA and turned her life in to a better place but she was starting again from the bottom. My dad didn’t get help and was still using and dealing and struggling last time I heard.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Yep. Low bar to clear

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Absolutely yes. I'm very fortunate.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Financially maybe, my parents were probably still at university at my age. They'd make more money than I do afterwards though.

And they had already found each other, while I've never even had one relationship yet.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

No. Close, but no.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Hard to compare in my case. I’m the same age as my mom when she had me, and we were multiple kids at that point. At the time we were probably smack dab middle class and were living comfortably. On the other hand I’m better off in the sense that I’m in another country that has a higher standard of living and way higher salaries, and we don’t have kids. So technically more money to spend than they did having to support kids.

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