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I have 17 pairs. That sounds like a lot but I could go for a couple more pairs if I'm being honest. Like a third of them are Converse, too; I can't help myself.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

If we count specialized shoes, then I think it's about a 15 pairs. That does include a pair of waterproof felt-soled fly fishing boots, waterproof and insulated muck boots, safety-toed boots, Olympic weightlifting shoes, motorcycle boots, and slippers.

For regular wear I've just got two pairs of brown leather dress shoes, one black pair, one pair of chukkas, and two pairs of sneakers. Then I've got a handful of other shoes that I thought I'd like more than I did. Some day I'll eBay all that stuff.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago

Are we counting the ones I can't find?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

A pair of sandals, a pair of slides, and a pair of steel toe boots.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Yes! I replace the sandals for a nice pair of stylish boots. I just bare foot if the slides are a bit too much casually.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

4, that's the most shoes i ever had

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Running shoes, Iron rangers, hiking boots, dress shoes, mountaineering boots, and plus worn out pairs of sneakers and winter boots that I need to toss. 5 good, 2 bad, plus a pair of slippers if that counts.

Look at your own situation and judge what is the appropriate sum for yourself.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Too many to count, perhaps similar to OP. However they are all from before pandemic and I’ve mostly worked from home since. I’ve also gotten divorced so no longer have my ex encouraging me to have presentable shoes, and they’re all getting old and brittle even if they still look nice.

I just threw out a nice looking pair of boots because the sole cracked from age and let water in. That’s my plan for the year - wear everything one last time and see how many of them need to be thrown out

I can no longer go back to the simple life and do sometimes have to go into work but want to get it down to

  • boots
  • crocs
  • sneakers
  • dress shoes
  • casual shoe/boots

The boots were water proof and good for winter but I want to start hiking again and they’re not in good enough shape for hiking boots so I probably need to replace those

[–] agamemnonymous 1 points 3 days ago

Dress shoes, nice shoes, work shoes, sneakers, boots, flip flops, house slippers. Enough to properly cover my use cases, without having multiple pairs for any one use.

[–] sunoc 2 points 3 days ago

At the moment I have:

  • dark brown Chelsea boots
  • black derby
  • brown brogue derby
  • dark blue boat shoes
  • 2x older sneakers
  • hiking trail shoes
  • indoor running shoes
  • flip flops

I want to find a good pair of loafers, and maybe eventually some Oxfords, but that’s about it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

My house shoes, my work boots, my hiking boots, my sneakers, my old work shoes. I used to have dress shoes as well but I broke them dancing a few months back. I need to replace them soon and may also get running shoes.

Oh, and a pair of flip-flops.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

4: 2 Pairs of street shoes, 1 Pair of Sandals, 1 Fancy Pair I didn't wear for years

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

4, if sandals count. Otherwise 3.

Two pairs of sneakers, a pair of steel toes work boots, and a pair of sandals. Only reason I even have two pairs of sneakers is because I thought I had lost one shoe from one of the pairs and bought another pair before finding the missing shoe.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

4 or 5. Winter boots, sneakers, suit shoes, inside sports and flippers if they count.

I really don't need any more than that.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

Yep I have too many (although I don't think I'm at 17), in order of time spent wearing:

Smart black work shoes Slippers Crossover walking shoe/trainers Casual trainers Gym trainers Outdoor working shoes Golf shoes Proper hiking boots Wellies Indoor football shoes Astro football shoes

I go through the work shoes probably 1 pair every 2 years or so. Slippers last maybe 12 months max, although I do wear them for jobs around the house. Everything else just lasts until it falls apart and gets replaced.

I think it's fair to say that I prioritise function over form - maybe this is the wrong forum for me, but you did ask the question!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

Technically 5, but 3 are old pairs that now get used for house/yard work. 1 pair is indoor only. And 1 pair that is nice enough to wear out.

[–] clay_pidgin 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Most years I don't buy any shoes, and I take good care of them and rotate them out, so they last me five years or more. I think I have three dressy pairs, two athletic pairs, and three regular cool guy shoes, and two sandals/flipflops. I feel like it's too many.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I have a pair coming up on at least a decade old at this point which astounds me since they're not a "nice" boot and only cost me about $100. I'm sure if I bought the same boot today I'd be disappointed in the drop-off in quality...

[–] clay_pidgin 1 points 2 days ago

Probably!

I have shoemakers in my family and they always make fun of my factory made shoes. They resole and fix their shoes for years and years.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 days ago

6 I guess:

  • Pair of hiking boots that I wear 99% of the time for walking, warehouse work, and motorcycle riding

  • Pair of walking shoes that I haven't used much since the weather has been too cold

  • Pair of warm indoor slippers since my apartment gets cold in the winter

  • Pair of slides that I use for going to the mailbox or the nearby vending machine at most

  • Pair of indoor gym shoes that I use for table tennis

  • Pair of baseball cleats for baseball

I also do have a pair of old speedcats that could be worn, but don't have much sole left. So 6 or 7 but realistically you are only going to see me in public in 1 or 2