My husband and I had a party. A friend's brother spilled an entire plate of food on my chair and it's ruined. She insisted on paying me for it. (She takes care of him financially). She sent me many texts and a few phone calls wanting to pay for the damage. I kept telling her not to worry about it. It was an accident. At one point she did get nasty and blame my paper plates for being too flimsy! I had 20 other guests use them without issues.
She suddenly venmo'd me money I did not ask for. I told her it was too much but she insisted I keep it so I did. I think maybe Im TA for not returning it. I did have to buy a new chair that cost more than she gave me, she does not know this.
Now she will not talk to me! She has dropped me from all social media. I am beyond confused. She can be a bully and this has the potential to get very nasty. Think I may be the TA for accepting the money.
AITA for accepting the money when she insisted on giving it to me or is she TA for being mad at me for this?