If my partner (28) is drinking every night, am i in the wrong for being upset? Little back story…don’t want to be to detailed incase this post is seen. So my partner has been very disrespectful when they have drank towards be (verbally abusive) and we have had talks about it not being okay, I have stated how i do not like the drinking and it needed to stop well has time goes on the drinking had been hidden….well they tried to hide it and i always find out which has now turned into lies about drinking. it has become almost an every day thing maybe 4 days out of the month they don’t drink, I have said i can’t be with someone like that and they say im weird and trippin because it’s not a big deal and they aren’t disrespectful anymore so what’s the issue with it. I have said it’s an issue for me and i don’t not like it and there is no reason to drink every single day and if they didn’t change i could no longer be in the relationship and they were going to make me feel crazy for reacting like this. So what would you do? Am i over reacting?