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[–] [email protected] 3 points 19 minutes ago

Trying to make a doc for migrants. Just the overview. Got the cold shoulder from one of the small web guys equating Lemmy to heroine. Essentially 'either do it like me or you are wrong'

Same as it ever was online.

As for me? Missing a few communities. Kinda head scratching at things over all, but it could be worse.

Both want to make a few instances and have no energy to babysit them.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

There's a few communities I'm missing still, mostly shitpost and fan fiction subs. I'd like to start them but I'm still not sure of my own footing yet.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 43 minutes ago (1 children)

We call them "instances" round here. A sub is my mom according to my friend

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 minutes ago

An instance is not the same as a community/sub.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 26 minutes ago

Yeah I had initially checked it out but seeing that there were so few posts and all over a year old was a little disheartening.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 14 hours ago (6 children)

Working on it. Little lonely since most of communities from reddit don’t seem to be here but still searching so we’ll see.

Definitely feeling like I need to install linux on my mac though, perhaps as some sort of initiation?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 48 minutes ago

Ah, the good old hackintosh routine!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago

Wouldn't recommend linux on a mac unless it's an old model (like ~2012)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

The peer pressure (and stupid broken updates from MS) finally got me to install linux about 8mos into using lemmy. It's pretty great, though - wish I'd done it sooner.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 17 minutes ago

Went with mint right after the announcement of tpm 2.0 since I'm running an off lease decade old office box.

What're you running?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

When I joined I felt like I moved to a village after living in a metropolis. There's positives and negatives to that, but in the end Lemmy satisfies my doomscrolling needs so I'm never coming back to reddit.

[–] stringere 4 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

When you need to doomscroll.
Why not scroll wikipedia?

https://wikitok.vercel.app

[–] [email protected] 7 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I encourage you to create them and foster them.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 13 hours ago

Let me get through the welcome newcomers stuff first! :)

[–] [email protected] 8 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Definitely better at navigating this week than last

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago

Good to hear!

[–] [email protected] 21 points 17 hours ago

Enjoying it. I'm loving the filters I can use to limit some of the political spam.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

It's going okay! Still trying to decide which instance to call home. I still find myself on reddit probably equal amount to Lemmy though, unfortunately

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 51 minutes ago) (1 children)

The particular instance doesn't matter too much as long as it hasn't defederated from other instances you care about & vice versa - since you can still see, post, & interact with content from other instances. I made accounts on .ml and .dbzer0.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 46 minutes ago (2 children)

I made an account on .ml as well but noticed a bunch of comments weren't showing up when I was viewing posts on .ml which is unfortunate

[–] [email protected] 1 points 34 minutes ago* (last edited 32 minutes ago)

ml is better to be avoided unless you're an extremist or want to become one. Well, Lemmy as a whole is very extremist, which is my biggest issue with it, so... still here.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 34 minutes ago (1 children)

Huh. Comments shouldn't be affected, as I understand it, just posts from defederated instances won't show up. For instance, .ml is defederated from any and all porn instances - so porn doesn't show up in my feed. I wonder if it could be a delay in the comments showing up, not actually an absence of those comments?

Either way, plenty of good instances to join that are less defederated than .ml

[–] [email protected] 1 points 28 minutes ago

Yea, I thought the same thing. But take a look at this comment I made to see what I have been seeing. Not sure what the explanation could be

[–] [email protected] 14 points 18 hours ago

I have to confess. I still scroll Reddit from time to time (no longer use my account), and the front page just has a lot more variety. There's still a lot of bot content from the occasional AITA that's purely clickbait to the reposts.

I do like that comments and conversations are better here. I'm seeing familiar names and I like it.

[–] [email protected] 45 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (12 children)

Pro: there is a Lemmy app (Voyager) based on the amazing Apollo for Reddit app.

Cons: Like 5 people total were chatting about the Super Bowl in the most populous NFL community.

There don’t seem to be parallels to most of the communities I belonged to on Reddit.

Still going to give it a try, but my excitement waned pretty quickly.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago

Indeed, Lemmy tends to have fewer but more engaged users. Which is weird at first. Can't wait for the moment we'll stop seeing known faces

[–] [email protected] 11 points 14 hours ago

There don’t seem to be parallels to most of the communities I belonged to on Reddit.

One adjustment I had to make when I moved over to Lemmy is posting/commenting more. On Reddit most of the time your comment was buried. On Lemmy, a bunch of people are going to see it.

Not saying you need to be the only poster, but sometimes everyone just posting a bit more will reveal a community.

[–] mnemonicmonkeys 4 points 14 hours ago

I personally like Jerboa, but I also used to use RIF is fun for Reddit which had a similar UI. I'm probably in the minority on preferences which is nothing new

[–] [email protected] 22 points 22 hours ago (8 children)

I genuinely miss the F1 and CFB communities for the commentary, but I’m glad I left reddit when they killed 3rd party apps. It’s nice to have a media feed that isn’t cluttered with ads.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 15 hours ago

Pro: There are lots of apps other than Voyager for people to find what works for them.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

yeah we're here not because it's the next new reddit, but because we were tired of reddit and spez. never said this place wasn't a fixer upper! it'll take some time to build up communities. but this place is doing better and better and only seems to be growing.

keep lemmy in your pocket. crosspost some memes. it'll be here for you, and even more so if you're here for us!

go birds 😜

[–] [email protected] 5 points 17 hours ago

Sorry, I used to post a lot more on sports communities when I was on Reddit but haven’t really felt the urge to sense moving to Lemmy. It didn’t help that the game wasn’t very good last night either. We are here. I’m pretty active on the fantasy football community. But there is just a handful of us playing there. Feel free to join us at [email protected]. I’m going to start our offseason mega thread now that the superbowl is done

[–] [email protected] 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, the mood is a bit different here. We do owls, raccoons, blahaj and Linux. Extra raccoons on weekends, though. I love this place.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago

Don't forget Star Trek!

...

And beans.

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[–] [email protected] 58 points 1 day ago (5 children)

good thanks I've sucked 4 dicks already

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 hours ago

Don't forget to get your card punched!
The fifth is free!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 15 hours ago

Four?? But I'm literally right here

[–] [email protected] 13 points 20 hours ago

You're gonna need to get those numbers up.

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[–] [email protected] 48 points 1 day ago

I deleted my last account on another instance and started a new one. So technically I'm not really NEW. But to answer your question, I wanna die.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 23 hours ago (5 children)

Still trying to figure this all out.

It sucks to prepare for a new social media home. I am still on Reddit, but I know it’s only a matter of time before some broligarch decides to take it down or do a TikTok reboot.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 22 hours ago (4 children)

I miss the drama to feed my schadenfreude I got from reading boru and the like. But besides not able to feed my bad vice, I think I can survive here.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Did something happen on the alien site last week?

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/czrlep5xpmzo

Since then, quite a few subs are looking for alternatives. [email protected] lists them.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

lol, they ban subs based on billionaire tears now? damn.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 42 minutes ago

For what it's worth, there is a long history of banning subreddits once they get negative mass-media flak, even if they were well-known on reddit beforehand. The site is a business nervous about its reputation.

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