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[–] [email protected] 29 points 6 days ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 29 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I can catfish you if you want

[–] midnight_puker 12 points 6 days ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

I did. I didn’t think it was a catfish though. I assumed it was some person promoting their streaming shit. Kinda smart, a smaller, mostly nerdy community of niche interests.

Doesn’t mean I didn’t block them though.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 6 days ago (2 children)

The only girl in the fediverse

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

She's a superhero. Fediverse Girl!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

I think the ratio of trans to cis women on Lemmy is about even

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

Imagine unwarping the face πŸ˜†

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

As a mod in other coomunities, please report these as quickly as you can. They can generally be taken care of quickly.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

I had this aswell. Will do.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

okay lol i feel less bad for reporting this user now that i know it was widespread

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago

damn how did they think that was gonna look legit 🀣

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago
[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

post shoe on head with todays’ newspaper

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Shame. I've PM'd a few people and had good conversations.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Sure, but did you at least add context about why you're messaging them? Like some comment or post they made that you liked and you wanted to talk about similar stuff?

Because that would be kind of normal. That's what private messages are for. But this one is just bait.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Yeah just a question or a word of encouragement or a recommendation so it didn't seem like I was advertising. I like most things to be publicly posted but not everything. If Lemmy gets a bunch of bot spam PMs, legit ones will be less likely to get a response.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago

I imagine speed limits will be put on DMs at some point in the future. There's no reason to have it wide open so you can firehose multiple people with the same message.

Like, if you're sending a message to someone and they reply back, you can immediately reply back, back-and-forth, as fast as you want. Other than that, you should only be able to send a message once every five or ten minutes.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

What's with that?

Is a homely looking person supposed to appear less scammy?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

Thanks for the heads up! I never PM anyone on social media platforms unless I’ve met them in real life and they expressed actual openness to talking to me.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

I thought maybe it vas a weird quirk of friendica, but yeah this seems more focused

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

I got it too. Looks like maybe they were banned because it disappeared from my inbox

[–] GrumpyDuckling 3 points 6 days ago

I've been getting a different one for awhile trying to rope me into a crypto scam

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago

Yeah this was the first thing that i saw in the morning and it was so surreal. I literally woke up, grabbed my smartphone, went to lemmy inbox, and saw this message three times in a row. Clicked through all of them, then fell back to sleep, only to wake up an hour ago and now i see this meme. I guess i wasn't dreaming this up after all.

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