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[–] [email protected] 185 points 1 week ago (2 children)

“I apologized, learned a lesson, and it won’t happen again,” Boebert said.

I doubt very much that she learned anything, and it will probably happen again.

[–] [email protected] 65 points 1 week ago (3 children)

What lesson, Lauren? What lesson?

[–] [email protected] 50 points 1 week ago (1 children)

To try harder to not get caught.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That tip would’ve been handy at the musical.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

(⁠ ͡⁠°⁠ ͜⁠ʖ⁠ ͡⁠°⁠)

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago

Stop it with those really, really hard questions, okay?

[–] earphone843 8 points 1 week ago

Force them to show you their genitals before calling security.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You know that “unsubscribe” button in lists? IF it works at all, it means “unsubscribe from THAT list”, not from the server or other lists that will be created and not even from the same list that will be recreated in the future.

So, “it won’t happen again” simply means with that person (in that restroom).

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I made a donation the other day l, carefully unchecked the newsletter box, and immediately got a newsletter in my inbox (a donation confirmation would have been fine).

Whatever, easy to manage, but come on!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

When that happens I immediately report it as spam. Enough of those reports and they start getting filtered automatically for everyone.

It's a pain in the ass to get off those lists, even when you end up on them erroneously and there's no actual spam messages that got you there. Getting off when there's an actual digital trail and real reports is even harder.

[–] [email protected] 119 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Cis women being harassed was always going to be the outcome of bathroom policing. It's about policing women's bodies.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Getting other woman worked up enough to police women's bodies*

The number of men who are able to stop trans women from using the womans restroom is gonna be real small. I hope most women realize we can just accept our sisters and fuck the police.

"Oh, I didn't realize there was a trans woman in the bathroom with me. Cause why would I car.... I mean.... I just wasn't looking at everyone else while I shat..."

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Dont you even watch television? Youre supposed to hang out at the sink fixing your makeup until other women come up and you can have a cute casual conversation that makes you realize something important. Probably about the man you were considering dating. I dont use the womens restroom and even i know that.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

It's a fact that the only thing woman can talk about with each other is men! It's a rule that I heard somewhere, and I keep too it! ~s

But really. The amount of talking and eye contact I do with other women in a public bathroom where I don't know them already starts at "are you in line?" And ends at "no TP in that one."

[–] [email protected] 109 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Back in 2013 during the trans bathroom panic under Obama in NC I got attacked in a bathroom in NY for being perceived as trans. I’m a woman, in the woman’s room, with a vagina. My crime? Short hair. Queer appearance.

[–] [email protected] 55 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That's what trans bathroom bills are really about. Enforcing the gender binary, including expressions. It's super pathetic, but also super scary

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Oh terrifying for sure. I was violently bullied my entire life growing up in the 90s on Long Island NY for being gay and gender nonconforming.

I’m a full grown adult in their mid 30s now and I would 100% fight to the fucking death in a bathroom if I have to. Zero regrets I will smash someone’s head in at this point if they try to fuck with me. I’m small but I’m insane. I’m also an athlete so I’m a hell of a lot faster on my feet than the average fucking chud.

[–] [email protected] 52 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The attack on trans people is an attack on "others".

You got attacked not for looking trans, but not looking enough like a woman.

That's the insidious thing about the alt right. It's about what they believe is "right".

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago

I’m fully aware

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I am often in workwear (big canvas jackets, steal toed boots, ill-fitting pants) in public bathrooms because of my job. I'm also a retired athlete who is built a little bigger than the average woman. I have been screamed at by a woman in home depot saying, "You're not supposed to be in here. This is the ladies." There have been a few other times I have gotten glares and suspicious looks trying to figure out what I have going on under my large clothes.

I have a theory that most of this trans bathroom fear has resulted in negativity towards other women. Butch women exist.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Exactly!

What’s crazy is that while I’m somewhat butch my face is still very feminine and I’m on the small side (well, bigger than I look, but smaller than the average American) - I’m like 5’4, 135lbs and fit and I wear masc clothes. But my face should give it away… and yet it doesn’t.

I think I might want to take up some self defense classes for when running isn’t an option. If I’m backed up into a corner in a bathroom I’ll fight for sure.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago

What the fuck is wrong with these people? I do everything I can to avoid eye contact or even look at another person in public restrooms. Who's in there doing fucking gender checks, that's just so fucking psychotic.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago

I don’t think I’m in as much risk now as I was then as I moved to vermont and people here are very live and let live whereas the part of NY I’m from lost their goddamn minds and made politics their entire personality. But who knows how much longer until that disease comes here.

[–] [email protected] 91 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I have never in my life met another group so obsessed with other people's genitalia. Whether it's being caught in a theater playing them, or stomping into bathrooms to look around at them, they really need a different hobby.

[–] earphone843 31 points 1 week ago

And specifically children's genitals. That's super weird and creepy.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

This is what we need to be focusing on. Why are Republicans so obsessed with knowing everyone's genitals and looking at them all the time, even forcing them to show their genitals. That's actually perverted.

Anyone got the cash to buy some political billboards? Ask the BIG questions nice and public?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Conservatism consists of exactly one proposition, to wit: There must be in-groups whom the law protects but does not bind, alongside out-groups whom the law binds but does not protect.

-Wilhoit’s Law

They’re desperate to find an ‘out group’ they can feel superior towards. In the ‘good ol days’ all you had to do was look at someone’s skin color, but now they’re being told they can’t do that (openly).

They’re also cowards.

So they’re aiming for a very small, underprivileged group that they think still seems ‘weird’ and ‘outside the norm’ enough that they can pick on them and not get in social trouble for it.

The problem is (and this is also a part of why they don’t like trans people) trans people look like everyone else, so they have to go around yelling at everybody and looking like morons.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

It's so fucking creepy

[–] Ghyste 39 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Stupidest member of Congress does yet another stupid thing.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago

It's a race to the bottom between her and MTG. Although I'm sure there are some dark horse contenders out there.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Our “representatives” working in the “important” issues. 🙄

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago

I'd argue that Lauren Boebert is one of the more representative Representatives as she is representative of a painfully large percentage of the US population.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 week ago

BoBo and Nancy Mace are mad because they like to go to the bathroom together and sniff each other's farts.

Many people are saying it.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Are we even sure that Bobblehead is a Feee-male? Has "she" undergone appropriate genital inspection? How do we even know?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Does her Beetlejuice date count?

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago

always looking to play the victim card.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

kicks door

Show me where you pee from!

Pants on the ground and dresses in the air!

If I see one underwear I'm taking you all in!

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

In my other comment I mentioned being attacked back in 2013. I offered to show the woman what I’m working with but told her I usually get a date and dinner first.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

I'm sorry that happened to you.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Show me where you pee from!

Pants on the ground and dresses in the air!

If I see one underwear I'm taking you all in!

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[–] wheeldawg 7 points 1 week ago

Sarah already said she would comply.

She really thought she was about to have her badass moment of rescuing the probably otherwise empty restroom from the clutches of a penis.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Silly Lauri Bebo, so filled with hate that she throws it at people without knowing that if she hates them.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I would not cry if this person fell down some stairs, broke every bone in her body, and died. Mind you, I’m not advocating anything that might be against the rules of this community, just saying I wouldn’t be sad.

[–] TacoButtPlug 1 points 1 week ago

I'm all for donating to a very cute puppy fund to help... uh... take care of the issue....