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A resource that shows how friendly/unfriendly US State laws are to trans ppl. Split into two maps, one for adults and one for minors.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I am so lucky to be in a cyan state. I want to know how I can help my fellow trans folks who are trapped in states that are actively targeting them.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

If you are in SoCal, this project is looking for people with spare rooms https://transrescueaction.org/

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Trans people are very welcome here in western Washington. The more, the merrier! Don't settle east of the Cascades, though.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Anyone got a map I can actually look at? Wont let me zoom in on mobile.

Edit: nevermind got it. Here link for others.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm so glad I can feel safe here. I love this place.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

Best place in the country!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Know anyone hiring in tech?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

There are always tech companies hiring here. We're the biggest tech area in the US after Silicon Valley.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

^ that too. Will install software patches 4 food!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Any advice for people looking to move to that end of the country? Ive lived in England so the rain doesnt bug me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What field do you work in?

If you work in tech, there are a lot of jobs available. I think we've still got a teacher shortage as well. And the police force is hiring aggressively in Seattle, though I doubt that's your profession if you're here. There's always a shortage of restaurant workers, but they won't be hiring someone who's not in-state already.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

3-4 years of IT support and about a year and a half vulnerability management i guess?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I wrote up this whole reply that somehow didn't get posted. Frustrating. Oh well.

Anyway, there are all of the big names (Amazon, Microsoft, Google, Facebook, Salesforce, and whoever else) who are always hiring. I don't have my finger on the pulse of the current small business hiring, but I know that the company which absorbed my previous employer is heavy on vulnerability management. Or at least it was. Okta. Worth looking into. Another name in the area is Tableau, but I think they have been shrinking their staff. Which is a shame. I worked there and they were a pleasant company to work for, but they are known for underpaying.

I'm sure there are lots of others, but I have been out of the industry for a couple of years now.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Buy a Subaru. Never use an umbrella. Become a coffee snob.

In all seriousness, the west coast is a beautiful place, so the best thing you can do is get some good gear and a pass and go out hiking, biking, and generally explore all over.

Sadly a lot of are cities aren’t as walkable as the ones in Europe, but Seattle and Portland have a decent transit system at least.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Hah. I was at the liquor store a couple of days ago and overheard a conversation between some of the employees and a couple of customers. The employees were telling them that we don't use umbrellas, only the tourists do. So true. Well, and some of the transplants from other states. They stick out like a sore thumb.

Also, I have a Subaru.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago

Stay safe my brothers, sisters and enby-pals!

[–] TriflingToad 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

so am i :(. Grew up here and lived here most of my life.

I am fortunate enough to be able to finally get out of here to one of the bluest places later this year if things go to plan.

[–] TriflingToad 4 points 2 days ago

I'm stuck here for collage for 4 years at least :(
I wish you luck in your future though! 🩷

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago