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Literally on the front page, wtf

Like what does being gay have to do with their crimes?

Just use "Two men sentenced to life imprisonment for sexual abuse of children"

This feels like covert agenda-posting

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I suppose it adds some context. They aren't separate adoptive dads who've cooperated to abused their respective sons, neither did the state allow an adoption to two single straight men living together- that they're a gay couple explains the situation.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago

I'm glad they threw in the words sick and horrific otherwise I might have thought this wasn't so bad, phew. That they described them as gay dads doesn't bother me though. For me it just brings up how difficult it is to ensure children's safety at home no matter the family type.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It has everything to do with their crime? Your "just use ..." misrepresents the crime, when family sexually abuse adopted child. These aren't two unrelated men.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

nothing in your comment is related to being gay, it's all about being a family/couple

I'm with you on the fact that missing the family parts kinda does misrepresents the atrocity, but it's not the gay part that can bring it up, it's the family one

As other said, it would be more appropriate to say "couple" or "dads" than "gay dads" imo

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

Would you have rather it said "pedophiles adopt and rape children" or "government fails to protect children despite background checks on potential adoptive parents and dragnet surveillance"?

I suppose I've never seen "straight married couple does evil act" it's just "married couple does evil act"

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Oh we literally had someone complaining about the opposite issue with a headline yesterday.

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/12252892

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

There does seem to be a non-trivial difference there though. In one the article is failing to state the orientation of the victims which was a motivating factor for the attacks, in the other it is suggesting that the orientation of the accused is a cause of their criminal behavior.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Minimize and demonize are what bring those two articles together.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 17 hours ago

A very good point, and one I wish I had included in my response.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Was the motivating factor that the victims were gay or that they were seeking sex with minors? It isn't entirely clear, but the trend that kicked it off seems to have been pedo-bashing.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

YUP.

The average redditor used to be center left (liberal) but now it feels like its going to the right.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

And redditors who post homophobic stuff like this wonder why they get banned...

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

How is this homophobic?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

That's not how that works