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For me, it was always Optimus Prime from The Transformers movie.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

!Sayori in Doki Doki Literature Club!<. Hot Dam did that hit like a brick wall

[–] [email protected] 94 points 5 days ago (5 children)

Wash's, in "Serenity". It was just so unexpected and abrupt, and it served to generate a sense of unease in the viewer; after Wash's death, no character seemed to be protected by plot armor. Granted, Shepherd Book bit it before Wash did, but the movie seemed to set him up to be separate from the rest of the crew. I loved that Whedon played with this concept of fragility in the ensuing battle, with Kaylee getting darted, Zoe getting sliced up, and Simon getting shot. And then, Mal's battle with the agent... I thought the misdirect was masterfully done.

I've been affected by character deaths before and since, but Wash's death was the only death I've seen in media that has made me worry for the safety of the other characters. It made a lot of sense outside of the movie, too, as "Serenity" was more or less a tribute to some IP that was never going to get resurrected. While watching the movie for the first time, I was left thinking: "what if Whedon just said 'fuck it'?"

[–] [email protected] 23 points 5 days ago

There's something people always leave out in all this. The crash right before wash dies really feels as if serenity could be totaled. So first that crash... Then all of that

[–] stringere 10 points 4 days ago

"I am a leaf on the wind. Watch how I soar." are some damn fine final words.

You can't take the sky from me.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 days ago (1 children)

The gut punch was Gina Torres, and Zoe not being allowed to grieve and be with Wash.

I watched Serenity again a couple years ago, and it was just as harsh and abrupt as I remember it. It's a hard emotional jab at anyone who has ever loved a partner that's a part of their everyday life.

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[–] [email protected] 70 points 5 days ago (9 children)

I probably haven't seen The Neverending Story in 25 years, but I still think about Artax from time to time. Fuckin' Swamp of Sadness…

[–] stringere 13 points 4 days ago

The 80s were so brutal. We had a kids movie that starts with the main character's horse dying from sadness.

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[–] [email protected] 37 points 5 days ago

"Dogmeat has died".

Oh no he fucking has not. Reload.

[–] traches 43 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] Jakeroxs 16 points 5 days ago

You monster

[–] [email protected] 22 points 4 days ago
[–] [email protected] 44 points 5 days ago (5 children)

First time I saw Wash die in firefly was brutal.

More recently, after watching better call Saul I am heartbroken over Mike's death. Particularly for Stacey and Kaylee.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Joyce Summers. That episode of Buffy was a masterpiece.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Holy hell, that was so brutal. How she was just lying there, with eyes open and all

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I just saw this for the first time recently. It hit me so hard that I had to call my therapist for an extra session. The look on her face was identical to my father's when he passed.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

My mom died when my sister and I were approximately Buffy’s and dawn’s ages, respectively. It was an absolute gut punch to watch for me too.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Sirius Black in Harry Potter. I had to go back and reread the paragraph several times, then put the book down. Seemed just so unfair.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Put in there just as a cheap way to get emotional reactions from the audience, it's the story telling equivalent of having the dog in the story die.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Especially since his death didn't really do anything. He didnt sacrifice himself or saved anyone and his death wasn't discussed much after the initial shock. I assume he had to be out of the picture so Harry could go Horcrux hunting, without him interfering

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Technically, Sirius is the dog in the story.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 5 days ago

Jesus, because no one ever shuts up about it

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood spoiler:

Tap for spoilerMayes Hughes

[–] [email protected] 31 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Robin Williams as the Bicentennial Man. The movie was okay; his performance was amazing. I've struggled with mortality for a while, like I expect a lot of people do, and to see him as a character who started their existence immortal, and to choose mortality. His death in the movie hit me much, much harder than I expected. I haven't watched the movie again since my first viewing because I'm honestly afraid of going through that again.

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Mordin Solus from Mass Effect.

"Had to be me. Someone else might have gotten it wrong"

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 5 days ago (5 children)

Aerith. Do I need to say more?

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

Bambi's mother.

Runner-ups:

  • Carl's wife from Up
  • The mother in Violet Evergarden
  • Ghost and Roach from Call of Duty: Modern Warfare 2
[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 days ago

Up wrecks me as an adult

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 5 days ago

Artax from The Neverending Story

[–] [email protected] 23 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Mufasa would be the most popular answer for us oldies.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Breaking bad spoilers

spoilerMike from Breaking Bad😔. Had to stop watching for a few days after that

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Big dan and little anne from where the red fern grows. Fucked me up at like age 10

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Cowboy Bebop spoilers

spoiler

Spike Spiegel


[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 days ago

The English dub actors that voiced Spike and Julia got married a couple years ago. That made me feel slightly better when I learned about it.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Hazel from Watership Down.

NOT a children's movie, mum!

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

Optimus Prime was a real shock for sure. For me it’s any animal death.

  • Artax from The Neverending Story
  • The dogs from Where the Red Fern Grows
  • There’s a scene in the Sci-fi novel Armor where a puppy falls in a well and its owner, a child, unable to rescue it ,has to kill it by dropping stones on it to spare it drowning. I read that a long time ago, probably in the 80s, and it still haunts me.
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[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

Rob and Catelyn Stark in the Red Wedding. So traumatizing!

[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago

Maes Hughes

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

2B from Nier: Automata...

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Arthur Morgan's death scene in RDR2 really got to me. But perhaps even more so, when my horse was killed right before. I remember pausing the game for a moment because I had had that horse for so long and somehow it felt like a major deal that happened so quickly.

Never had a game affect me like that before.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

Grave of fireflies. Just... Yeah.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Made me cry:

Gotta be Schindler's List. That movie was so goddamn sad, and I just started sobbing when I saw that splash of red color. You know when. Ooof. A masterpiece I will never watch again.

For a more recent example, I watched the second season of Arcane. Lots of sad scenes, but anyone else who has watched it knows the most heart-wrenching one:

spoilerCried manly tears when Isha sacrificed herself to save Jinx.

Left me disturbed:

Another Spielberg movie, Saving Private Ryan. Didn't cry when the Nazi soldier sloooooowly stabbed Mellish to death. But afterwards, I had nightmares about it for months. Cripes, what a brutal death scene.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 days ago (1 children)

It’s been 25 years since I first read it and I’m still not ok with the fact that Old Dan and Little Ann didn’t make it.

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