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What red flags in dating men are critical in your opinion (self.askgaybros)

submitted 1 month ago by andrew_bidlaw to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

calls himself straight before meeting
calls himself straight after meeting 😭
doesn't know what he's looking for

[–] andrew_bidlaw 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

calls himself straight after meeting 😭

Wait, what. How?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Pre-transition me went out with another crossdressing guy I met on an app (which wasn't exclusively a gay app) because we had similar experience in free software stuff, so it seemed like there was a lot in common. We walked around and talked for a couple hours, and he told me that he thought he might be interested in guys, but after seeing me he wasn't. I'm not bad-looking either, but at the time it was low-key devastating.

[–] andrew_bidlaw 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

No wonder. I'm sorry I dugged that up.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

It's fine. I know I'm not unattractive, I just don't seem to be as attractive to guys as I'd like to be since I still look like a man. I appreciate these gay questions. I wish more people asked them.