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People who haven't really resumed socializing at levels they used to, people who lost the capacity to regulate during interpersonal interactions, people who lost trust in others... I encounter lots of partial returners out there

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Maybe if we smushed the two together and made up a word? Like hikicovidomori

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

I think the term is hikikomori, and the cause is COVID isolation.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Maybe there is a German word for it. Or that could make one up

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

It's all the doing of Nihon Hikikomori Kyokai..!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

Yeah lockdown was living my best life. At least I managed to get a fully remote job with a small company several states away.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

Partial returners seems like a good name for it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

We do. It's called being Smart.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Yeah. That's me. Or anyone I know, really. Sure cities are back to pre-pandemic chaos, but those are other people.

I choose to work from the office on most days. I use public transit. I go to the gym. I'm not locked in, but ...

  • after-work drinks
  • meetups
  • catch up with a friend at the pub
  • date night
  • clubs
  • partys

That's a distant past. And i don't miss it, really.

Ok, I do miss socializing, the good parts: Crack some jokes, have some small-talk, feel part oof a group of friends.

But i don't miss it enough to endure that bad parts: Forcing oneselves into conversations with strangers, "networking", drinking a beer alone in a corner of some event, going out to bar where over your overpriced drink you'll accept that you'd rather be in your living room. Bars and night clubs are a weird concept (unless you are in your twenties and really enjoy the scene): You realistically only talk the person you came with, but they can't hear what your are saying since it's loud and crowded. There may be music, but unless you came to dance, you probably have a Spotify play list you'll enjoy more. In better quality.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

I fucking loved it. 😁

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Me. I'm people.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Where do you encounter these people that haven't returned from isolation?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Not really isolating is on zoom. Just preferring to be where they cannot smell you. I presume.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

How about: isolastionists?

[–] Varyk 3 points 1 week ago (4 children)
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Avari.

The unwilling elves who refused the great journey!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Hermits

I feel like the weird one out because lockdown was absolute hell for me. I need my community and my people. I go crazy being stuck inside a small apartment with nothing to do. I'm not fully an extrovert, I do need my alone time, but I also need to be with people I love.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Extraintroverts?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Informed? Did the infection rates start dropping lately?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Yes, it started dropping years ago and is now less than 1% of peak infection rate. It is endemic now and treated like the flu. Keep living in a bubble for the rest of your life if you want, I guess.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Petroverts?

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