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I know and can accept the response that say I should register to X site if I want more activity. I do plan to, least with Reddit, just biding some time before I make yet the 20th disposable e-mail and probably the 100th account before it gets banned again if I cross a glass person. Glass person being someone who's so fragile on opinions and things that they'll scream 'BAN THEM BAN THEM!'.

I've been on KBin Social, Lemmy World (least 2 dedicated accounts), KBin Run, Mastodon, Blue Sky .etc

And I'd stay for a good while but I also found myself bored immediately. I check for questions to answer, it's the same questions I've seen days and weeks prior. I check around for things that are reported and they'll be hours old and some of them can be years old.

I love the idea of the Fediverse, I like some of the features that are implemented. Especially when you do ask questions on here and you're allowed to expand on it. Unlike AskReddit for example, they don't really like that and will remove your post because explaining what your question is about and backing it with an example is just unacceptable to them.

I don't know. 43,000+ people sounds a lot on paper, but in practice, it feels like you're dealing with 50 people at any given day.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 16 hours ago

I wish there was more people on not-so-general communities.
If this means less meme or political posts, it would be for the best. However, more specific communities that are not part of a themed instance have very little activity. If I want to learn about ecology and its science, I know I can find many active communities on slrpnk.net, if I want content that matter to Germans, I can go it feddit.org, jlai.lu the same for Frenchs. But if I want people posting picture of nice looking sticks or find !foraging stories or connect with people doing [email protected] I know that I have to be patient and that's to bad 'cause if people spend less time commenting US election or some shower thoughts, some people will find time and fun interacting in these communities and many others.

[–] [email protected] 84 points 1 day ago (1 children)

For more diverse content I indeed wish, but you can't build a healthy social network with an explosion of members without the moderation and toolings required to handle such a wave.

I'd rather be there while the Fediverse grows organically and gather my info from multiple sources the old fashioned way.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 22 hours ago

Yeah. I feel like Lemmy doesn't have the tools needed to moderate a larger community outside of defederation.

[–] Mandy 12 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Idk man, in actually seen here and not drowned out

Little a comment I make that doesn't have any interactions, I like that

[–] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago

Ya it's not bad. In the popular areas it seems like I can get away with just commenting on things but smaller communities I need to make a post to make it feel not-dead in there.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

So You Thought You Were Lying Low in a Space Forged by an Exodus from Society to Bury your Shoebox of Fake IDs but Nuance Defied Expectation, a Stone's Tale

[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 day ago (1 children)

No.

I have actual internet friends here. People who, based solely on their efforts and words and interactions, align with my own beliefs and ideals and help me temper and adjust accordingly as time goes on. Adults. I'd happily stay like this or with more, similar people, growing slowly and legitimately.

[–] vulgarcynic 9 points 18 hours ago (5 children)

Agreed. The past year has been a great change from other social media personally. I was Reddit only for the prior 7 or so years and Lemmy feels like a time hop back to pre-dystopic Internet days. I approach it more like my favorite forums from the 90's-00's.

Less content and users are ok when it leads to more civil engagement's.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Same here. I find lemmy very relaxing. Multiple times a day I’ll see people admit they misunderstood and upvoting each other. It’s quite refreshing. Sure people still be people but. It feels like we care and aren’t throwing trash on the floor. Whereas Reddit everyone will wipe their ass on your nose.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I firmly believe that the reddit takeover was a part of the grand region destabilization plan to sew discord and resentment in our society by foreign powers. I caution that I am not unaware that it is exactly what or alphabet agencies have been doing to the rest of the world.

Communication among humans is the only defense. Cheers to you, friend! Thanks for contributing to the conversation.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 hours ago

Honestly not a wild conspiracy. The β€œbad guys” would not want us to socialize/communize as that would only make us stronger in the long run and force them to compete harder.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

I used reddit for two things: news, and niche subcommunities around small hobbies and fandoms.

We've got the former here, but I don’t know if we'd ever have enough of a critical mass to sustain the latter. And that sucks for me, because I no longer have a good space for that stuff, but I still don't ever want to go back to reddit now.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 20 hours ago (5 children)

We do, people just have to put in the work. I run two niche communities. Satisfactory and Taylor Swift. Both take time to run and manage, I had to be the sole poster in both for a good long time before other people started jumping in and posting with me. Someone has to be willing to put themselves out there.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 21 hours ago (3 children)

I worry sometimes that the reddit exodus brought mostly bellyachers.

The sheer boringness of these repeated questions about the size, growth, health of the fediverse.

Fuck metrics. Jesus, do you mot get it at all?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

If you think this question is being asked too much, go and sit at AskReddit sometime. Count the many, many times you will see questions like 'Why are you single?' or "What would you do if someone gave you a million dollars?' or similarly worded questions. They are posted by the hour, almost nonstop.

You get a question like mine like once in a few weeks or a month maybe. But you hadn't seen anything until you check out AskReddit.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

You are ... making my point.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 20 hours ago

Agreed! Seriously people this is not reddit. It does not have a bajillion users. Stop asking for it to have a billion users! This question has been asked So. Many. Times. I'm content with the amount of users here, of people want to invite more than invite more, but what is this post? "I have noticed that there are fewer users". Correct! Next question.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Yes and no.

Yes, I wish the fediverse would become more adopted by the general public because it will continues to improve.

No, because people are stupid assholes

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I kinda like the lack of content. I don't feel like I'm missing anything here. Mastodon is too busy.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 21 hours ago (8 children)

The largest Lemmy instance is the most boring, full of unfunny memes and the worst Redditor culture. What you want is high quality postrs, not simply more people!

As Lenin said: better fewer, but better.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

I don't know. I do understand the preference of quality over quantity, but there is a limit. There's a difference between reddit anime discussion, where each episode discussion has hundreds of diverse opinions - most being shitty - sure, but while the voting system is flawed, the interesting comments do tend to rise. and between lemmy's anime discussions, where an episode has...let me check: between 0 to two comments: https://lemmy.world/c/anime or https://ani.social/c/anime. That is really sad. Not to mention that reddit has so much niche subreddits

[–] [email protected] 5 points 18 hours ago

Having enough users for a community is important, I agree! I think that with the current size of Lemmy userbases, communities are often more like topic flags than self-sustaining niches.

Though to pick on Reddit, every time mods crack down on bots their subreddits decrease in posts and comments around tenfold. A lot of the engagement is fake. Mostly to boost numbers for financial reasons but they can also serve as a means of controlling behaviors and narratives.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 19 hours ago

Be the change you seek! Most anime communities will let you post episode discussions, and if your instance is active enough you'll draw viewers sorting by new.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago

I would say I miss some specific people or groups, both on Lemmy and on Mastodon, rather than generally "more" people. Friends of mine, certain people I used to follow on Twitter that haven't made the jump, some communities about specific hobbies, that sort of thing.

Overall, I enjoy the fact that I can get a rough idea about who is who instead of interacting with a mass of faceless strangers.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Yes, I still moderate a subreddit which is a support group for a particular surgery. There isn't such a community on the fediverse and the group of people who need this surgery seem to be few in number here too. (Won't be any more specific about the nature of the subreddit or surgery for privacy reasons, before anyone asks)

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 23 hours ago

Since the vast majority of website users are minimally engaged, I would love for a few more active posters for stability of content and discussion, but not a massive influx of users just to have users.

I also don't want a plethora of users who get banned repeatedly for not being selfaware that their behavior is the problem. The occosional crossed wires ban, no biggie, but thinking there are so many glass people that creating dozens of alts is necessary is not a good look.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 21 hours ago

I literally do not care about getting more members. It is not on my radar at all as a goal or desirable thing or objective.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 23 hours ago

Personally I don't find a huge difference with reddit and threadiverse, at least for larger subs. Sure, on paper there are hundreds of comments, but most are the same tired decade old memes. You can predict what the comment sections are gonna be like from the title alone. At worst you get similar comments here, but you don't have to dig through hundreds of comments before finding something worthwhile.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 20 hours ago (3 children)

Absolutely. There's just fuck all to do here. I used reddit for fan communities a lot, and most of them stayed behind. (Unless you're a trekkie I guess. Then you're set.)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago

[email protected] has several threads with different active communities on different topics

[–] [email protected] 5 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (4 children)

Nearly every niche community I've joined has essentially died due to not having the critical mass of users to support that community. Hell, even look at the large states like California or Texas: they're communities with only a few hundred active users and maybe a couple thousand joined. Feels like the lemmy is mostly us politics, star trek, Germans, and memes.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

I mean, you are on a site built and maintained by Communists along Communist principles, there are going to be Communists.

Reddit already exists for liberals.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I didn't say anything about communists. I said I missed being able to interact with people who shared my hobbies. I just want to ~~grill~~ talk about cartoons and video games.

Also, I was sold on Lemmy because they told me it was an user owned alternative to reddit, which was going tits up at the time. "It's a communist website." Is not what they told me to get me over here.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

I didn't say anything about communists

What did you mean by the word "tankie?" Liberals?

Either way, it's about finding a good instance and sticking with it, not just going with the largest and most boring instance.

Edit: misread "trekkie" as "tankie!" My bad lol

[–] [email protected] 5 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Trekkie, star trek. Not tankie.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Oof, misread that, thanks

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

register on X site

No, not that one.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 19 hours ago

No.

People are the worst.

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