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So I mean, most of us knew this beforehand and being on the fediverse we probably do not really care, but what was always on the horizon has no happened, the owner of Squabblr finally had enough having to be a decent person and has decided that his site is now "free speech purism", so he gets to continue to insult LGBTQ people like he always does.

Seems from the comments that some other admins disagreed with the decision (so there were some decent people on that site!) and either left or were removed.

Not entirely surprising the whole thing, granted.

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Also, apologies as this isn't truly reddit news but Squabblr was one of the sites frequently brought up in /r/redditalternatives so I figured this might still be relevant?

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[–] [email protected] 66 points 1 year ago (14 children)

A ton of people flocked there because they think the Fediverse is too confusing, so now they're going to Discuit.

I have accounts on both out of curiosity, but I had a feeling something weird was going to go down on Squabblr. I just got a weird vibe from that place at first. I am not sure about Discuit yet, but it's yet another centralized service people are using because the fediverse is "too confusing"...

[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah I've literally made accounts in squabbles and lemmy at the same time. At first squabbles was great, but somehow there's something there that I couldn't describe. I continued to go to lemmy but I've stopped going to squabbles for weeks now. And suddenly this!

Sometimes our instinct is spot on and we got to listen to it more often.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

The commitment to tweet-like self posts is what made me leave. I don’t like posting an image or article without being able to provide a title.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I honestly prefer fediverse remain as that complex open source alt, because it's one of the few filters we have for users here.

I honestly don't believe rapid growth is healthy for any platform, and we've even seen it here with how comments and memes are getting increasingly vitriolic and offensive. Fuck, antivax memes are starting to appear on lemmy.ml's meme community.

I'm starting to think Beehaw had the right idea with vetting users, because there people here who think Lemmy should be another 4chan.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (11 children)

How is make an account on an instance, got to all, subscribe to interesting places, hard? It’s almost the exact same formula as Reddit

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (11 children)

When the majority of the world has been using centralised platforms that don't have the complexities federated platforms do, it's understandable that there will be people that get confused over why there are several "Lemmy" servers, or why they can't sign into a Lemmy server when they signed up on another, or why when they try to find a Lemmy community on their server they can't see it, but they can in Google.

Somehow email providers have avoided this problem, I think because they are pre-installed on devices as the "Email" app.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

We need more topical instances. Nobody found PHPBB's confusing. Let people sign up for an account on the blindness instance, and the cooking instance, and the gaming instance. Eventually they'll discover that they can use one account for everything, and it's just easier to do it that way. But in the meantime they're not confused. We're probably going to market rblind.com that way; a spot for blind folks to network. Eventually they'll discover the federated communities on there own, without us pushing it on them.

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[–] slackassassin 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Except going to "all" only provides content from other instances that people on your instance are subscribed to. That is not well understood nor well explained. Whereas "all" on reddit is actually "all."

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[–] [email protected] 51 points 1 year ago

Funny, during the boycott of Reddit when squabbles was growing, I signed up and created two new communities - one for earbuds and one for vaporents (dry herbal vaporizing).

My earbuds community was quicky approved, but the vaporents group took almost a week before it was approved. It's almost like the site's owner (since back then he had no mods or admin team) was hesitant when it came to something possibly clandestine in nature. I guess drugs aren't cool, but hate speech is?

[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sucks. We had lots of fun there when it first started. But I've deleted my account now. It's hilarious to watch Jake try and make an empire. What a loser.

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Used to be "Squabbles". It, Lemmy, and Discuit were three of the major Reddit alternatives thrown around during the Reddit protests.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I've legit never heard of Squabblr or this... Discuit? What even are these?

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago

Reddit alternatives that didn’t pick up a lot of steam yet. We’ll see if they end up winning out over the fediverse or reddit itself, looks like squabblr won’t if it’s already gone the truth social route

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Squabblr was called squabbles until a very recent rebrand. You may've known it under its old name instead.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (6 children)

That was this stupid Reddit + Twitter mix, right? Never understood why some people were hyping that platform up so much.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

It's pretty alright. The dev is pretty fast, churned out a majority of the site between a month before reddit killed 3rd party apps and today. Decently responsive to requests and stuff too. But the site just didn't grow, and the head dev was never okay with giving up sole leadership.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Hot damn. I was reading the name and thought first its about squabbles, which I considered to be checking alongside lemmy how it develops.

So I was briefly shocked about this development, then I realised this says squabblr and not squabbles. And then I read your post.

Rollercoaster.

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago

It's already falling apart and I haven't even heard of it. Sounds about right when it comes to chats and social networks these days.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is why non-federated services are crap.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Have they learned nothing from the failure of Voat?

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

Nah, in the minds of right-wingers that just means they were unfairly censored by the woke trans left jewish globalist elite.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

“Let’s copy Twitter and Parler, those are soo successful!”

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

The sole motive behind transforming a three-month-old online forum into a "Limited Liability Company", which they did, appears to stem from either intentions of selling it or the reception of funding, consequently relinquishing your authority over it.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (9 children)

It's starting to worry me that "free speech" has become something to be feared and avoided. Avoiding confrontation to your beliefs just makes you and your beliefs weaker.

[–] [email protected] 55 points 1 year ago (29 children)

Of course, but it's important to keep in mind that so-called "free speech absolutists" don't actually want free speech. They want freedom of consequences for their very specific, narrow, non-free speech. They would love to censor the living shit out of everybody else.

So there's a difference between free speech, and, well, "free speech".

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

Yup, that's been my experience of listening to them as well.

It's so enticing to people that are unfamiliar with the narrative that free speech absolution is the ideal and that these guys are standing up for it. When you pay attention they bend their own rules for themselves all the time.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago

The term is being abused as a dog whistle for freedom to pass prejudice and discrimination. Being apposed to a "free speech" platform risks you as being against said free speech. It's falling under the paradox of tolerance concept.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

"Free speech" has become an anti-feature now due to the prevalence of people who use it to justify enabling bigotry. It's sad.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Your comment history is a cesspool. Yikes.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I completely agree. I am a stressed sideliner politically, and I like to hear differing opinions, but I'm so tired of the term "free speech" being associated with alt-right dog whistle rhetoric.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Since "free speech" is a dogwhistle, what should a hypothetical place actually interested in free speech as more than just a bigotry shield call what they're trying to do? Some place interested in allowing discussion of objectionable topics without bigotry?

Yes, whatever, those don't exist anywhere, you don't need to respond with that tidbit. Humor the hypothetical here.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Call it "Open Discussion". Make it clear that the purpose of the site is to allow for discussion from all walks of life and perspectives, but that it has to be actual civil discussion. Outright hatred and bigotry, as well as arguing in bad faith, aren't helpful or productive in an open discussion, and as such would be shunned and banned. This way, you can still have opinions that aren't "mainstream", but you won't be removed as long as you're civil and respectful about it. Doing this will attract people who are really interested in hearing other perspectives and sharing their own, instead of alt-right shitheads looking for another place to infest.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

what the fuck is squabbler?

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Here I go deleting an account, sigh, I liked the platform there

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

The sole dev of Squabblr (Jayclees) really needs to hire someone to do the community management/PR side of things. He is great at programming but he keeps making snap top-down decisions that go against what the userbase wants. And his use of language (i.e., "free speech platform") sounds like a fkn dog whistle.

All these big names on Squabblr going to Discuit like the devs can't do the exact same thing over there. I'm tired of migrating platforms. If Lemmy doesn't work out, then I'm going to just go touch grass for fun.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

It sounds like a dog whistle because it is a dog whistle.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I may not be onto anything here, this may just be a coincidence. However, the timing of these two events are suspicious.

1: Squabbles.io rebrands to squabblr.co. The .io domain explicitly forbids anything that may be considered illegal by any country. The site could be shut down if this is violated. You know what would be considered hate speech by some countries, such as Canada? Discrimination of someone based on their gender identity, ie trans people.

2: Squabblr rebrands to a “free speech” website and removes all explicit mention of LGBT+ being protected under their ToS. Within microseconds (slight exaggeration, but within less than 24 hours) people are chiming in with the “trans women are not women” statements.

Was that planned, or just extremely unfortunate timing?

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (7 children)

IMO if sites want to take a "free speech" approach without allowing bigots, maybe they should adopt the Canadian law. We don't have free speech, we have what's known as "freedom of expression". Essentially, we can say whatever unless it's hate speech or bigoted.

Yeah, Canada has censorship, but it's essentially just to censor racist idiots and homophobic fools.

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