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Just wanted to share my 8 months mark.

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[–] RIPandTERROR 42 points 4 months ago (2 children)

A few of my other recent favorites including a pretransition

I'm happy seeing my self like never before 😁

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago

omggg youre super cute

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

I love your new glasses choice, they frame your face much more femininely :3

[–] Titou 12 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Hey, i have the same necklace :3

[–] RIPandTERROR 11 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I thought all Transfems did? 😜

They're awesome 😎

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago

where can i get one

[–] Titou 6 points 4 months ago
[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 months ago

Wow, you're fluffing adorable :O 😻

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

lookin' killer sis!!!

love those glasses

I need to get a choker, takin' notes here

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

Seconding the glasses, they're a great shape/style for you!

[–] RIPandTERROR 4 points 4 months ago

Choker was like $2 from hot topic and Zenni has the frames I'm using 😁

Tysm!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago
[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

You look great sis! Those glasses and that hair really suit you <3 I love how you have exactly the same smile in every photo lol

[–] RIPandTERROR 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

πŸ˜… selfies are new but I'm addicted. Idk how to smile any other way yet... I need to watch a video or something.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

Oh it was absolutely not a negative point, it's a lovely smile!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

You look freakin' great!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

How the heck does this choker always look good? It instantly make any girl look cute

[–] RIPandTERROR 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Trans ✨magic✨ powers

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

According to my middle school crushes it worked on cis girl too ^^

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

Just a beauty

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

Two words: Get. It. Ma. Ma.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Just want to say I love your glasses! They suit you really well!

[–] RIPandTERROR 2 points 4 months ago

Thank you! I'm really picky, but I'm very happy with these 😁

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

You are fucking slaying it! It should be illegal for anyone to be so confident.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

I was puzzled at first: "That's unclear. What progress is she making? 8 months since what? 8 months weight loss? Yeah she looks great, well done, her. What's this community? RIP and TERROR? No, she's not doing well at that at all! She looks really alive and friendly. Wait, no, it's the transfem community?! Oh wow, yes she IS doing well."

If you were at all worried about whether you pass, I can assure you that you pass. Go you! And you dress well.

I hope you have a life full of happiness and peace from here on in.

[–] RIPandTERROR 3 points 4 months ago

Absolutely LOVE this internal monologue. Thank you for the kind words!

[–] midnight_puker 3 points 4 months ago

Be still, my heart! 😍

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

Progress? My first thought was you were losing weight or something (didn't realize the community posted to). I was like what progress, till I scrolled down. Doi.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I’m curious, is saying β€œnice tits” in this context wholesome or creepy?

[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Creepy. Don't say that to strangers.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

Got it. Thanks.

[–] RIPandTERROR 9 points 4 months ago

I agree with lady autumn, but I will also say the compliment will probably still live rent free in my head for a while πŸ˜