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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/13942739

Sometimes I look back on my life and wonder exactly how much of my life and current personality is purely due to the autism.

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[–] Shampiss 21 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Oh so you're autistic? Name all model trains then!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Lionel, Mikes Train House, L.G.B., - wait a minute...

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago

You've been autist-baited!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

🔔🔔🔔 Hear ye! 🔔🔔🔔 Hear ye!!🔔🔔🔔

Whereas this petition has been formally requested, I hereby declare and/or proclaim with the memory of Casey Jones and all others present to serve as witnesses that, henceforth, all model trains shall be legally named "Then"!

Disclaimer: IANAL (I am not a lawyer; pronounced: I-anal) and this is not legal or financial advice.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 7 months ago (1 children)

And my parents'. And some of my grandparents'.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago (1 children)

The ones assuring you "that's normal, just try harder" you mean?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 7 months ago

Oh no, they were full on messes who had no idea why. But I know. Too late, but I know.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 7 months ago

Yup. After my diagnosis there was a lot that suddenly made sense looking back on it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago

it can't be that hard to photoshop some rainbow puzzle pieces over that ohio flag cmon now

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

what is the original image?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Ok this is kinda unrelated but the phrase "looking back on my life" triggered a meta-memory of one of my favorite lesser known Green Day songs from my adolescence, and I've decided to subject you all to the lyrics of the first verse/chorus.

Looking back upon my life and the places that I've been 
Pictures, faces, girls that I've loved, I try to remember when 
Faded memories on the wall, some names I have forgotten 
But each one is a memory, I look back on so often

I look into the past 
I want to make it last 
I was there 
I was there

Thanks, hadn't heard that one in a while.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Cool! Btw, how did you get those words to come out purple??

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

They're not purple on my side, must be your app. I just formatted it as a code block with the ``` on either side.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Weird, I'm on desktop. Maybe it's my theme: darkly-pureblack. Anyway, here's how it looks on my end:

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

Huh, weird. No clue!

[–] carbon_based 2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Mine (web browser) does the same. Looks as if [programming code] syntax hilighting failed at determining the programming language but hilighted some possible keywords anyway. iow:

if viewing_app.defaults['hilight_code'] == true:
  try(codeblock.interpret('is this Python somehow?'))
[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Mri is the only way to be sure

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I found out at 40. According to everyone in my life, they were pretty sure I was autistic within mins to hours of meeting me.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Found out at age 44 that my autistic-like behaviour is due to being born without a corpus callosum in my brain.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

woahhhh, you are two!! do you have any other interesting differences due to the lack of corpus collosum, like being able to draw 2 separate things at the same time?

here's a relevant video that describes a neat experiment: https://youtu.be/wfYbgdo8e-8?si=hmkE5MzRvjPW2fMu

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

I have a somewhat elevated sensitivity to interpersonal interactions that result in involuntary embarassment displays that i try to ignore but seldom succeed at. And that video is limited in accuracy as it is predicated on the idea that the split brain was originally a single organ but became divided at some point leading to more defined differences between the two sides whereas those of us born this way have had our whole lives to cope, adjust, and compensate at the conscious as well as subconcious level. Ive had 60 years for both of me to figure out the best way to function and aside from the occasional redfaced reaction to a normally undetectable stimulus i think ive done pretty well

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

that video is limited in accuracy as it is predicated on the idea that the split brain was originally a single organ but became divided at some point leading to more defined differences between the two sides whereas those of us born this way have had our whole lives to cope, adjust, and compensate at the conscious as well as subconcious level

Thanks for sharing! What would you change in the video?

I have a somewhat elevated sensitivity to interpersonal interactions that result in involuntary embarassment displays that i try to ignore but seldom succeed at...and aside from the occasional redfaced reaction to a normally undetectable stimulus i think ive done pretty well

That sounds interesting! Could you share some stories with us please?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

Not a lot to tell. Always happier (and safer) alone so work to maintain that lifestyle as much as possible outside of having to work for a living like everyone else. Like i said the only way this condition differentiates me from "normal" people is the reflex redface that pops up at inconvenient times. Since that video is as old as it is i would add some more details of new theories that have been brought to light since then. People like me are not different enough from anyone else to be noticeable unless you spend a lot of time with us, which, as i said i work to avoid ,)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

I feel so one-dimensional