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Yesterday I passed a barbershop and saw ads on their wall outside of men with beards and short hair. It is a revival or saving electricity ?

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[โ€“] verity_kindle 2 points 1 year ago

It tickles.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When I was still in the closet, I grew and maintained a big beard as part of my attempts at performative masculinity.

Not saying that this is what's happening with most men who're growing 'em out, but sometimes I see a bloke with a well maintained set of facial hair looking absolutely miserable and my egg radar starts shrieking.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

oh hey its me

Though over the winter it was decidedly not well maintained, longest its ever been, etc. I kind of get weirdly less dysphoric about just letting things go vs. actively cultivating something I don't necessarily want or like.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Actually it is now moustaches that are back. And sometimes mullets.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Iโ€™d love to have enough hair to grow a mullet. Not that I want one, I just want that much hair.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Receding chins

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I mean, beards are in fashion for several years now, aren't they?

I personally started growing a beard, because my skin is easily irritated and I don't like walking arround looking like a pizza. Luckily I also think I look better with a short, well kept full beard. Beards either take time or look like shit though in my experience.

[โ€“] VintageTech 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I prefer to shave so individuals can see that I have a chin / jawline.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (5 children)

The question is: why are you shaving? Why are you so afraid of looking like yourself?

When you have a beard, people respect you. They listen when you talk and hold doors open for you. I have a hard time trusting a man with a clean shaved face, because our interaction is starting off with a lie. I feel the same way about makeup and fake eyebrows and plastic surgery.

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