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[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago

I'm registered to donate, they won't take them unless I get an expensive genetic test. My brother just passed away, and they wouldn't let him donate anything because we had an aunt a couple of generations ago who had Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease (a prion disease that causes dementia)

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

No need to register in Brazil, you just have to tell your family members, as they're asked whether or not they're ok with your organs being donated. I've already told my family to, once I die, donate all of my organs that might still be in good shape

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

I am and I hope to have everything unsalvageable cremated

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I am not registered, but I have a organ donor card (where I approve organ donations).

Background:

Germany just recently (18th of March this year) launched an online database where you can register your preference. Until then there was only a small organ donor card that you could fill out and carry with you.

Reason I haven't registered there yet is that I first need to unlock the online function on my passport (nowadays always enabled, but I still have one from when it was optional). So I'll eventually get around to doing both.


As for my reasoning behind being a donor:

  • I would like to receive them in an emergency (or for someone I care about to do so).

  • And in case I become a donor I am not there anymore to care about what people do with my organs.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

Yes I am.

When I die, my organs are no longer of any use to me, but could improve someone else's life. I'm not sentimental about my corpse. I'll donate anything that's still useful. I don't even mind if medical students use my bones to play pranks on each other. Heck, I think I'd prefer that.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Yeah but I wasn't for a long time. There was a spiderman cartoon where mary jane was targeted for murder because her name was in a database of organ donors and the villain needed her organs for his wife or something. scared the shit out of me when I was a kid and I had a knee jerk reaction when filling out the form I never really thought about. someone had to directly ask me before I realized I had based this decision on a cartoon I saw when I was 5.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

I’m not. I’m aware of how selfish it is but something in my system of belief that I have (undefined? spiritual? no idea?) says that when I’m dead, I should be ALL dead.

Like, if there’s any kind of afterlife, will leaving a functioning part me behind hold up the transition? This even sounds fucked up to me because I’m 100% not religious at all.

I would just prefer all of me to be dead or all of me to be alive. Not fractions of both at the same time.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

Don't think of it as selfish. Your body is one of the few things in this world that is truly, indisputably yours. It's entirely up to you if you're comfortable with donation. If you're not, there's no criticism to be made.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (4 children)

I think I'm ineligible. I think my sibling tried to register but was they were told they were ineligible because we lived in Europe in the 80's

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Yes. I'd like to donate my body to science too, but I want to see if there's a way to do it non-profit. I'm not interested in helping make someone rich.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Not american, so that link doesn't apply to me. Here everyone is a potential donor, and the family decides. My immediate family knows full well that my organs are FFA when I don't need them anymore.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

Yep. Although I'm pretty sure no one would want them.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

I am. Because why not?

[–] kakes 5 points 4 months ago

Not sure if I'm completely registered, but any time I've been asked I check Yes, and I have it checked on my health card.

Like you said: "why not?" Not like I'll be using them any more at that point.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

Yes because hopefully someone better than me will get them and make a real difference in the world.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Yes, though my lifestyle may mean some are no good.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

Only because there's no box on the license application that says "donate body to be chummed and thrown on rich people".

But for real if my vacated body can save someone else's life or make it better by all means get that shit.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

Nice try fed, won't get my organs that easily

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

By default in our country. You have to unregister if you don't want it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

I'm volunteer to donate because of I accidentally die, rather that it deserve someone who would have more luck than me rather than no one.

Now in Belgium it works a bit differently. Everyone is, by default, considered as a donor.

You can then register to either refuse it or to impose it whatever your family says.

This is because the law is that the doctors must always ask the family if they are ok to give organs from diseased family member even with the "by default donor", with the registration you can say "don't ask my family and just do it".

This can be used in two situation in my opinion, the first one being family that have different conviction and may refuse despite the opinion of the diseased. The second situation (mine) being not wanting to worry grieving family with one more difficult decision to take.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

the best thing i could ever do at the last moment of my life is help someone else get a second chance

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

Yep. I'll be dead anyway, so I have no use for them anymore. If it can save someone's life then imo it'd be a bit selfish not to. I was already registered when it was still opt-in, but now it's become opt-out here in the Netherlands so even better. It'll make sure that a lot of people who don't care either way will now save life's that we otherwise wouldn't.

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