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[–] InEnduringGrowStrong 16 points 7 months ago

For those asking, Wikipedia is a decent start:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_place

[–] taladar 13 points 7 months ago (1 children)

What is a "Third Place"? The only definition I know is as a place that is neither home nor work in an urban environment but that is less personal.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago

Correct. They largely went away for various reasons but still feature heavily in media.
OP is asking if you go to a place that is neither home nor work.

[–] JamesStallion 9 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I have no idea what this means.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 7 months ago

A place to regularly socialize that isn't home or work. Ideally somewhere that you can reach within walking distance of one of those other two places.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago

I am stressed out by groups of people and have some (not crippling) social anxiety. I tend to come home right after work as it's my happy place. I don't see the appeal of bars, libraries, etc as a Place To Be because I have my home (which is a privilege I am thrilled to be able to have) and bought one so that I can be there instead of out in an environment that isn't mine.

I do have a virtual third place if that counts - it's a Discord server. The people there are friendly and I can always lurk or leave if I don't want to socialise.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago

Yes, I have a local wildlife refuge with a long gravel road that heads through the marsh. It's my sunrise thinking spot. Occasionally run into people I know, but never planned.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago

Sort of? Playing tabletop role-playing games is my go to, but that is either at a friend's house or my house.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

A little down and to the right of first and second

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

I have two: my neighborhood library, and a few bars. Depends if I'm in a reading or socializing mood

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

I don’t even have a second place anymore. I’ve been working from home for so long. I only interact with co-workers for ~15 minutes a day on zoom.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

I don't go very often, about once a month, but it's the bar with my friends.