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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/Downtownpixie on 2024-01-22 06:33:15+00:00.
I have been distancing myself from a group of friends I don't really connect anymore, I’ve been trying for a year, but somehow I reconnected, but I had enough after a month when a boy in the group told me that I was too busy working and doing my own things (I've been taking acting classes and castings). I didn't have time to go out with them anymore.
(I had many fights and bad times with them. That's why I didn't want to go out with them anymore and I was busy too)
One of my best friends is still in the group, she feels the same for them but she always comes back, I was telling her that I’ll never see those guys again in my life, and I show her the voice message I got from him, and she said it sounded like he was making fun of me for the acting part, and that never EVER even cross my mind for a second. I showed the voice to my family and another friend and they said nothing like that.
These guys, I really had some bad ones with them, but they never sounded like that, and They were always interested and asking questions about my classes and stuff.
And my best friend only showed interest when I got a cool opportunity
I'm not saying she should be interested, but when she said that, it felt like a big red flag, like is that what you think? Subconsciously or something?
I tried to ignore what she said because suddenly it made me feel very insecure but she kept saying over and over again that he sounded like he was making fun of me.
Then I realized I was feeling a little uncomfortable with her lately as well, we didn't talk much anymore, I recently had a little birthday party and she gave me an Office related gift. I don't even like The office that much, wtf???
This doesn't seem like an important detail but keep in mind she's been my best friend for over 7 years now
Is that on me? Like how don’t you know what I like? I don’t know
Excuse my English
Please help
TLDR: I got on a fight with a friend cos I didn’t had time to go out with them anymore. I told my best friend and she said it sounded like he was making fun of my dreams (?? And that was a huge red flag for me suddenly since it really didn’t sounded like that to me or to my family and to another friend