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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/ThrowRAhappylove197 on 2024-01-22 06:11:10+00:00.
So I'm coming back from my overseas trip tomorrow. I knew that he would be getting flowers because I asked him if would lol.
So this morning, my mum goes out of her way to tell me - your bf went to ours for 20 minutes. He left a bunch of "something" (obviously implying flowers). She knows because we have security cameras and she checks them.
Great so now I know my bf has planned something in room (which I am sooo grateful for and appreciate - even if idk it yet)
I'm obviously going to act surprised and be super happy tomorrow. But should I tell my bf a couple weeks later that I know BECAUSE OF my mum. Almost like a warning - if somethings meant tk be a surprise - dont do it at mine.
He knows that we don't have a healthy relationship (eg: my mum opens all the parcels I order, even when I ask her not to)
Tldr; my mum just had to tell my that my bf bought flowers for me and put them in my room - spoiling the surprise for me. Should I tell my bf what my mum did? If so, when?