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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/ThrowRA_ribbon on 2024-01-22 05:14:13+00:00.
A guy friend and I have been spending loads of time together doing couple stuff without the sex. We would talk four hours about life, jokes, and deeps stuff. Two weeks ago I confessed to him that I liked him. He said his type is “slender girls” but he said he does feel a spark with me and finds me beautiful, but he wasnt ready to “be there” with me yet. A week later, we hung out and one thing lead to another… we kissed. The following day, he said he didn’t regret it and realized that he has growing feelings for me. He said he would “like to explore our feelings for each other and give it a chance.” He said I make him feel comfortable and he loves how our dynamic is safe and compatible. He asked me out on a date. he said he isnt ready for a relationship yet because he would like to see how we are in a romantic setting and bc weve only known each other for 6 weeks. He has been spending time with me and my friends and been really tryjng to get to know me.
Im feeling a mix bag of emotions. A part of me feels excited about the new potential, but I’m also terrified because he is a good friend and that maybe he feels forced to ask me out? Im not sure.
TL;DR: told my guy friend I liked him romantically and at first he said I was too curvy for him since he likes slimmer girls. After a week we kissed and he said he wants to try a relationship because he grew feelings for me