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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/pinkjackchi on 2024-01-19 13:47:03+00:00.
Hi everyone. My boyfriend and I have sex maybe a few times a month. Every time he initiates sex with me and I don’t want to he’ll start pouting and saying things like “damn” or “come on” and it really bothers me. Last night we had sex and I came to a point where I wanted to stop because it was starting to hurt and he got upset saying “come on I wanna finish” even though he never does. He wouldn’t stop pouting and begging to continue and it really pissed me off. It’s such a turn off to where I don’t even wanna give him sex if he reacts this way when I don’t want to. Sometimes I feel bad but other times I want to smack him. Sometimes I feel like I may be in the wrong for not giving it to him.
TL;DR: My boyfriend gets upset when I don’t wanna have sex. Am I in the wrong or is he in the wrong for having these reactions?