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I am talking about love in the sense of romantic love. I am very short and ugly which makes me very unattractive. Never had a girlfriend or touched a girl. I have many girl friends but one of them was my crush but I never asked her as I knew she would never like me. I know people will say that just get successful and rich and girls will like you, but will they like me or just money. What is the point of dating then. Is there any way I will get genuine love or am I destined to live alone for life.

All the girls say they want a tall guy, I can't grow my height, trust me I tried, I visited the doctor, I tried exercise, I tried hormones, I tried a special diet that some random YouTuber told me, I tried everything. I can't become tall for you. I am still thinking about limb lengthening surgery, The doctor said it is very risky and very possible I could never walk, but I want to take every chance possible. Trust me I tried. As soon as I get money I am doing surgery. This was my limit I can't go beyond that.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Women have much more words-orientation than we guys do.

Invest in:

  • Wonderworks
  • The Anatomy of Genres
  • The Anatomy of Story
  • a couple of Gottman's books
  • Logan, King, & Fischer-Wright's "Tribal Leadership"
  • Halvorson's "The 8 Motivational Challenges"

& understand both how to woo women much more competently, as well as how to make your woman live a healthier life ( the "Tribal Leadership" book & Gottman's stuff ), & know how to recognize different unconscious-mind styles from Halvorson's book, so you aren't investing in a lost-cause.

  • Kegan & Lahey's "Immunity to Change" is required if you're in it for the long-haul ( in your own life, or in a marriage/family, both paths need this leverage, in our world ), and want to competently dismantle your unconscious-mind's obstruct-growing-up-to-protect-status-quo mechanism..

Life's worth much!

A little study can go a long way, if one knows what one ought be studying, you know?


People judge others by appearance .. when we have nothing-else to go-on.

When one has significant evidence of someone's worth, and that evidence isn't their appearance, their appearance becomes rather irrelevant...

Some people are entirely-visual, some are entirely non-visual ( like me ) in thinking.

Unless you're clawing-your-way-out-from-reincarnation ( like me ), there likely are good-matches for you.

The significant-evidence item, though, identifies that you need to be hanging-around among women, for them to get to know you, like volunteering somewhere, or something..


Do well, eh?

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