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Being emotionally available is underrated (lemmy.world)

submitted 10 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Find a better human to be your wife.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I know that's an extreme comment but I couldn't imagine being with someone where I have to be guarded or keep walls up, that's really unhealthy.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

There is no reality where I would expose myself to that kind of abuse, because it is abuse. Anyone mocked for having emotions is being abused.

I can't speak for anyone else, but I would find far more contentment being alone and free to cry when needed than being afraid to show emotion around someone who is supposed to love and support me.

I suppose I'm lucky to be with someone who has expressed satisfaction at the fact I don't bottle up my emotions.

[–] UrPartnerInCrime 1 points 10 months ago

If you can't put down your arms with the people you love, it's not true love