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No_Bag_1086 at 2024-02-02 09:18:02+00:00 ID:
kokdjqr
For The love of god at least do it as a hobby only. We dont Need more men falling for the stupidity of manipulation and actual people that contribute to our country
WINNER1212 at 2024-02-02 09:23:03+00:00 ID:
kokdxzq
What a stupid comment. Only do porn as a hobby because, if you take money for the work you do, men can't control themselves and will throw all their money at you, and the men deserve the money more than you.
Maybe those men should get a grip.
NiuxeR at 2024-02-02 09:28:15+00:00 ID:
kokecj5
Onlyfans as a business model, is built on "scamming" people. Mainly men, some who just have a lot of income, but it's not like these people, much like gambling, care for the wellbeing of their clients.
Sure, the men, well, everyone should get a grip at realise porn isn't reality. But just like other addictions, some will fall for it. And with how much sex sells. I'm suprised you'd only blame the users here.
talonthedragon at 2024-02-02 09:34:28+00:00 ID:
kokeu42
What part of onlyfans is a scam? I open an OF where i post explicit content, i advertise that I post explicit content, people pay to see my explicit content.
NiuxeR at 2024-02-02 09:38:37+00:00 ID:
kokf5rw
The part where you "chat with the perfomer", a bunch of this, is to keep the client there, fake a connection or a bond. In a lot of cases it's hired people who pretend to be the performer.
That's the scam. And lets not act like the advertisement isn't made out to be you're getting more than just explicit content.
The part where someone do porn, or post nudes or whatever, and get paid for that, sure I'm down for that.
talonthedragon at 2024-02-02 14:59:42+00:00 ID:
koleygr
That's a fair point. I wasn't aware that chatting with the model/performer was part of the deal. From a business perspective, it makes total sense. From the customers' side, I hope that the majority are suspending their disbelief/buying into the fantasy, but there will always be someone that falls into a toxic parasocial relationship. I think making a comparison to phone sex operators probably isn't too far off. How to fix that I am not sure, but I dont think I'd go so far as calling it a scam
PinkLegs at 2024-02-02 10:03:24+00:00 ID:
kokh31c
If the men aren't realizing they are buying their attention, I have a bridge to sell them.
NiuxeR at 2024-02-02 10:05:31+00:00 ID:
kokh947
Well, a lot of the time, it's not their attention they are buying.
If you want to sell me and bridge, and I believe you because you're a renowned bridge builder, but in fact, I'm talking to someone who just impersonate you, isn't that scamming?
PinkLegs at 2024-02-02 10:11:49+00:00 ID:
kokhr3e
So the person men are talking to on OF aren't the performers?
NiuxeR at 2024-02-02 10:14:51+00:00 ID:
kokhzqn
Not always. Their chat funtion on the page, of the performer is sometimes run by multiple other people, who just act like them. Much like if you write to a famous person and get a letter back, that might be someone else.
Or write to your national politician, most likely it's a PR person responding. Difference is, OF is selling that.
PinkLegs at 2024-02-02 10:44:40+00:00 ID:
kokkf1n
I haven't used it that much - interacting with the performers always struck me as fake because there's money involved in it. Same as other salesmen or waitstaff, they have to be nice, so I don't take it for granted.
If they can't see through that... there's this great bridge that I'm selling.
WINNER1212 at 2024-02-02 09:39:49+00:00 ID:
kokf938
Well the people who create porn on only fans are actually working and providing a service. While gambling is just plainly stealing money
No_Bag_1086 at 2024-02-02 09:48:34+00:00 ID:
kokfxqz
And how is people working for gambling not doing the same? Even if you lose majority of the time they still provide a chance of winning and a service
WINNER1212 at 2024-02-02 10:04:14+00:00 ID:
kokh5de
The chance at winnings is so small it's negligible. And most gambling is run by big rich companies, while only fans is a platform for other people to create content for.
NiuxeR at 2024-02-02 10:07:58+00:00 ID:
kokhg3f
Slots machines are somewhere between 0.8 and 0.95 return, so "chance of winning", in the long run is low, but it's not small like you say.
Blackjack, you can even have an advantage.
Now the lottery, yes that's so poor odds.
But not all gambling is so small chance of wining it's negligible.
WINNER1212 at 2024-02-02 10:12:25+00:00 ID:
kokhss9
Fair enough, I was talking about the chance of making it away with any noticeable winnings.
NiuxeR at 2024-02-02 10:29:36+00:00 ID:
kokj68c
There are people who live off blackjack alone?
I mean, it's a fair stance to have that OF is complete legit and all good. But if you want to blame the users here, be consistant, and blame gamblers, alcoholics, drug users etc. That's all I'm asking.
WINNER1212 at 2024-02-02 10:36:27+00:00 ID:
kokjqlu
Big difference between only fans creators and big gambling companies. And big difference between porn videos and a button that makes some sounds and blinking lights.
NiuxeR at 2024-02-02 10:04:05+00:00 ID:
kokh4z4
How is gambling not at service? They provide at game, now the game is with shitty odds and designed for you to lose on average. But I don't see how porn is doing anything else than getting you a release.
Not going to address the clear scamming of hiring other people to impersonate you in order to chat with clients to form a bond and earn more money?
WINNER1212 at 2024-02-02 10:10:23+00:00 ID:
kokhmyf
Most gambling is "press a button, lose money" that isn't a game.
Hiring other people to write as you is something everybody does when they get famous.
NiuxeR at 2024-02-02 10:12:31+00:00 ID:
kokht2u
And porn is a service how? It's "watch this and wank yourself off", you're paying for a visual. It's just "wank and lose money".
And that's okay? That's not a scam?
WINNER1212 at 2024-02-02 10:25:25+00:00 ID:
kokiu6a
Porn is a service just like movies or series, it elicits a feeling in you.
I mean yeah it's okay if you are fooled that's on you.
NiuxeR at 2024-02-02 10:30:02+00:00 ID:
kokj7if
If I'm fooled? What do you mean?
WINNER1212 at 2024-02-02 10:43:18+00:00 ID:
kokkaz5
Nah do some reading comprehension and figure it out, if you are able to have an opinion on stuff like gambling and porn you should be able to do basic comprehension.
NougatTyven at 2024-02-02 10:09:06+00:00 ID:
kokhjbi
That's the whole problem though!
No_Bag_1086 at 2024-02-02 09:46:41+00:00 ID:
kokfscy
Onlyfans is a huge scam. Girls interact there with men saying various things to appeal towards him and building fake bonds to try and get more money out of you. I’ve had an onlyfans account so I sure know what I’m talking about. Sure not everyone on there is like that but majority of the time you get messages like “are you feeling lonely? I can help make you 😘” and then the content is behind a paywall
Maybe women should stop manipulating the loneliness of many men 🤔
WINNER1212 at 2024-02-02 10:30:24+00:00 ID:
kokj8lu
Maybe men should fix their own loneliness. Speak to your friends and parents and stop seeing women as commodities
No_Bag_1086 at 2024-02-02 10:38:17+00:00 ID:
kokjw37
You mean The same way many women see men as a source of money? 🤣
WINNER1212 at 2024-02-02 10:46:24+00:00 ID:
kokkkbr
Yea you seem like a feminist, women are just as good a source of money as men. They should realise they don't need a man for money they can get money themselves
Dotbgm at 2024-02-02 09:30:59+00:00 ID:
kokekda
Tbh, the far majority don't make any significant money doing it. Media is obsessed by the 1% who make millions and make it sound like easy-money. So realistically yes, it will most likely remain a hobby - especially in Denmark.
I don't understand at all why people want to even spend money on OnlyFans to begin with; many use manipulative strategies to create a fake bond between them and their subscribers.
Spend the money on joining a food-club, cooking classes, dance or art classes instead to fight loneliness and then jerk it to PH instead.
No_Bag_1086 at 2024-02-02 09:50:34+00:00 ID:
kokg3fx
Because majority of men probs don’t have the balls to do that or it’s not just the same. Doing social activities and having a women seem like she appreciates and cares for you with a bit of spice at the same time is very different things
NiuxeR at 2024-02-02 09:36:33+00:00 ID:
kokf03u
Because of your next sentence:
This. It's that simple.
Some, have "given up", on being accepted, or finding a romantic interest, can be a lot of reasons. But OF provides it. It can give the (often) men, the illusion of a connection. And a fucking brilliant sentence I just heard "Not feeling pain is addictive". If, you constantly feel outside, or like you don't belong, having a beautiful woman spending time with you, or just even acknowledge you exist. No wonder that's intoxicating.