I literally do blame the Democrats for Trump, and if you don't, you weren't paying attention.
Plenty of us were critiquing Clinton's campaign on those merits and were consistently talked down to in shocker the same way we're being talked down to now. Shocker, she lost. I remember saying a few weeks before the election "We're about to get Brexited." I put my vote down for Clinton, because Trump is fucking insane, and that was clear before he was President. It was clear in the fucking 1980's.
Being able to critique our leaders is supposed to be what is the difference between us and conservative voters. They're the cult who unquestioningly believes all the bullshit that comes out of Trump's mouth and diapers. I find it weird that people think we should be more like them in regards to our leaders like that would be a good thing.
I think you might be the woosh since you don't think actions demotivate people, only people talking about those things.
Also, assumptions that we don't take part in the process has been going on for over twenty years as well. But I guess you don't give a shit enough to find out if I'm actually involved, do you? Easier to just assume I'm not, right? Than to have to actually engage with the point?