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[–] Leer10 42 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Do I have untreated ADHD? I hate this.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago

You are voluntarily here and finding common ground with an ADHD meme. If you've felt like there's something different about you and have been waiting for a Sign, this is it.

Just keep an open mind, since a lot of different things can cause ADHD like symptoms. "I actually don't have ADHD" is also important information, and a good psychiatrist or therapist can help guide you to wherever the truth lies.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I've had a feeling that I might have it for a while but idk what to do. It seems like there's probably not a sureshot way to know I have it? And if I don't, it'll always feel like an excuse to other people.

[–] MyNameIsIgglePiggle 13 points 1 year ago (5 children)

This is literally the diagnostic criteria: https://add.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/adhd-questionnaire-ASRS111.pdf

Have a go and see if the questions resonate

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Ha, wow. I think I need to make an appointment 😅

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

OOF

I was wondering why all these memes were attacking me so much...

[–] thelsim 5 points 1 year ago

Thank you so much for that link.
A lot of these questions hit close to my own experiences. I should really get something done about this.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

They really do resonate....Maybe not all but quite a few.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Talk to your doctor and/or psychiatrist and they can't test and diagnose. Even being diagnosed, I still often feel like I'm just making excuses when something stems from my ADHD, but it's important to remember that it's not fair to yourself to downplay your own challenges. Acknowledging the challenges you face, and their affects on your life is not making excuses. It's being honest with yourself about what you experience.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What happens after a diagnosis though?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Hopefully treatment :) That can include therapy sessions, and also trying out different medications and if they help

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Also I have one question. I've always done reasonably well on exams by cramming on the last day (more like last night) when the pressure is extreme. That doesn't take away from the fact that I could have it right? Like I'm good at cramming something under pressure and vomiting it out the next day, but am also awful at something that would require regular periodic studying.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm no doctor, but what you're describing would be consistent with ADHD.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Thanks. I'll mention that when I talk to the doctor.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sorry for the late reply, but as the other commentor pointed out, what you described is incredibly consistent with ADHD. There is a reason we are prone to procrastination! Definitely talk to your doctor or psych about what you experience.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Thank you so much!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Thanks. I hope it goes well. I don't see my mom being thrilled if it comes down to needing medication.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was thinking the same thing, then i remembered I'm just useless...