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When sexist objectification accidentally teaches a point against sexist objectification
It happened to me when I played Star Wars: The Old Republic. I'd played it since the beta and finished the story with all classes but I decided to play as a female sith warrior and I constantly got messages from dudes complimenting my thick ass or wanting me to humiliate them and be their dominatrix mistress. It really put into perspective the shit women go through. Especially since my character didn't even have a skimpy outfit.
I'm a woman who has played SWTOR since its inception 12 years ago and I've never had anything like that happen. I've played through the whole story on 16+ toons, one for each class/sex combo. I'm not surprised by what you say, just lucky I've never experienced it.
Happened to me multiple times on that character. Never with any of my male characters.