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She bought the tickets without knowing about the strike. We accepted the gift without knowing about the strike.

She's a Republican and still wants to go and cross the picket line. She doesn't care.

My wife understands my hesitancy, but says that it's too late, and so we have to go regardless.

The kids are really looking forward to it.

I just feel so horrible. But I have to go with them.

What can I do to make amends?

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Can the tickets be changed to a later date?

It's not too late. Stick to your guns and refuse to go. Make Grandma take the kids herself while you and the wife stay home and enjoy some alone time.

All things considered, I realize you have to pick your battles where in-laws are concerned, so good luck. If you don't put your foot down with her now though, when will you, if ever?

I can't really think of any way to make amends to the employees on strike. Maybe go back later with some snacks and water or something, but at the end of the day, if you go to the show, you're prioritizing your shitty mother-in-law's lack of compassion and morals over workers making a decent wage/benefits.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

You’re right. It sucks.