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It could be over a few months, like a new job where one day you feel like actually going to work thinking, hey I actually like these people and don't mind working here.

Or when your friends have been super busy for months and suddenly you get matched on dating apps, old friends reach out and people want to buy your old junk on Craigslist in a single day.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I know what you mean, and yes. At 20 years old, I turned down a job in my field to take one outside that I wanted to do for a few years just to see where it led and get it out of my system. I almost physically heard a door close and wondered if I’d done the right thing. Almost forty years later, I’m still not sure.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

That is so interesting. If you're willing to say, I'm curious about which fields they were?

I had a similar experience with radically switching majors (zoology to engineering). I just needed to know. However, in my case I sensed the door closing and dashed back in. Would've liked that engineering money though..

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

My field was and is now languages. I knew that I had a couple of other interests that needed to work themselves out, so I took a job in broadcasting and audio production, turning down a job in languages. Life would’ve been much different if I hadn’t.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Oh, quite a big change for sure. And you'd be having the exact same thoughts on the other side if you'd taken that language job. That'd definitely be sitting in my thoughts.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Yeah, that's what I thought at the time too. For a ton of reasons, it seemed the right decision then. In the long run... who knows?