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People have lost sight of how much of our "free" time is actually just resting and recuperating in order to perform better during "work" time. Like, the 8 hours a day I sleep isn't really my time. The commute to and from work isn't my time. The basic maintenance and upkeep stuff, the unwinding from a stressful day, all that isn't truly my time, it's just preparing for and recovering from work time.
A two-day weekend makes this exceptionally clear. At least one of the days is usually spent catching up on all the stuff you couldn't do because you were working. The second day is rushing to try and get any enjoyment out of it before you go back to work. There's barely any actual agency or freedom, it's all part of the cycle of producing value for someone else.
Even worse if you're in a job without set schedules or weekends, like most service industry workers.
Every weekend feels like by the time I'm unwound from work then the weekend is almost over. Like tonight is Friday night, so I'm like "I need to do something to take advantage of it", but I'm already zonked from work. Before you realize it you have Saturday which you're right day is spent doing projects or things that need to happen because we get so little free time, and then maybe go out if you have energy, then Sunday all day is "Can't do too much, we have work tomorrow."