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Been seeing a lot about how the government passes shitty laws, lot of mass shootings and expensive asf health care. I come from a developing nation and we were always told how America is great and whatnot. Are all states is America bad ?

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It has many things that are bad or disappointing.

Health care is a mess.

It's very car centric outside of maybe New York City.

There's a lot of racism. There are probably still sundown towns. You should go read the new Jim Crow.

The police are dangerous and often useless.

One of the two major political parties doesn't believe in government, and tried to overthrow the government. They're still considered legitimate.

The day to day life in most places is fine though. You almost certainly have power and clean drinking water. With at least one notable exception, on water, but not enough people cared to fix that promptly.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Your comment lacks a bit of experience/awareness about what's out there. The US is huge, you're going to find different experiences in different places. Your statement about New York being the only mass transit city in all of US is not true. My vacations to Seattle and Washington DC I had no car, went all over the city by bus and train, easily.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Vacation is the key word there. Living is different, because the services you'll need aren't necessarily available. We now have stopgaps for certain areas if you aren't poor, like delivered groceries, but good luck in Seattle and Washington DC if you aren't at least upper middle class.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I've also spent time in Europe using the public transportation you're using to set the bar and Seattle and Washington DC are on par. I'm sure (hope) that some other US cities are there too that I haven't visited. Both of those cities have stops or stations throughout the whole city and suburbs. City stops are usually around a 5 minute walk to anything and the suburbs were 15 min walk at worse. Connecting routes to get across town easily. Routes were frequent in busy areas during the day. I didn't see anything offered in Europe that isn't also available in these US cities with usable public transportation

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was being a bit hyperbolic, but most places in the US require a car for long term living. A vacation isn't really representative of living somewhere full time with a job and errands.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I could get anywhere in the city quickly and cheaply at any hour of the day or night, surrounding suburbs included. Routes at least every 15 minutes or less along busy routes during the day. It would have been much cheaper if we were residents with yearly passes. We had backpacks to lug our stuff around, if you needed to bring more you could bring a small cart. It's not as convenient as a car, buts it's public transportation same as any city in Europe. I've also spent time in London and had an identical experience. What do you think busses and trains in Europe offer over the ones in good US cities? When I needed to get an hour out of London, I needed a car too