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No Stupid Questions

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago (2 children)

People don't like rejection. Evolutionarily rejection from peers/society means danger. Even if it's not dangerous now, the brain (especially the amygdala) reacts the same. People get anxious, defensive, etc. It takes time and reflection to accept that maybe what you said was wrong or socially unacceptable. Internet is too fast to reflect, it's much easier to respond in anger and then forget it all.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Totally this. It just sucks to put work into a comment or a post and be downvoted to hell.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I mostly don't worry about it, many times text just loses some of the nuance that speech has and misunderstandings are more common. My most down voted comments on reddit were mostly in subreddits like nvidiashield and had the temerity to say something negative about their choice of streaming box, I've never understood the need to defend things like that.

[–] Just_A_Human 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why specifically the amygdala? I would've assumed it'd originate in older parts of the brain

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

It's the emotion center for the brain, especially negative emotions like fear and anxiety. Older parts are often "responsible" for keeping you alive, so breathing, heart beating, etc.