this post was submitted on 15 Aug 2023
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Humans who run instances are real people who have jobs and mortgages and kids. I also like having piracy communities around to balance the greedy ass corporations trying to control media and copyright…I’m glad to know they are there if I need them or feel like screwing around with it. I just wonder if the people ranting all indignantly acting like instances are competing for their usership would feel the same if the most active instance was on a server physically sitting in their basement, or paid for by money tied to them in the real world. Yes it seems pretty unlikely that you’re ever going to run into issues with law enforcement, copyright claims, lawsuits…but how much would you risk for a fucking hobby you do for free? Would you risk your house? Your job? I would not. Grow up. No one cares what instance you use.

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[–] [email protected] 77 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I'm just grateful to see that just when folks were beginning to doubt if Lemmy could actually serve as a Reddit alternative, we've been able to prove that we're equally if not more adept at insular slapfighting over petty bullshit and assuming the worst about others' intentions.

[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yes, the "everyone is nice, everyone is happy" days are over, at least for the coming days.

I guess that means we reached a large enough userbase

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It means there is now a healthy spectrum of feelings. Nice and happy all the time isn't healthy.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Image a large ascii made emoji of shaking hands. Whatever you just imagined is probably way better than the one I've been trying to copy and paste in here. :)

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm pretty sure someone was being a dickbag to me like, the day I joined, so it was basically a seamless transition from reddit. Though honestly, the last time I was on any kind of public site without anyone being a shit was when I moderated a forum a decade ago, at least up until we passed maybe 200 users. I'm pretty sure that's about the limit before someone has to act up.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

Right around Dunbar's number

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Lemmy ultimately can't serve as a reddit replacement, but not because of the people. It's the technology that won't scale. If we took all the slapfighting that reddit had to offer, every instance would crumble trying to replicate a million snide and argumentative comments.