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Wedding photographers, what was the sign that 'this' marriage is going to fail? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by tja to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I ended up becoming Facebook friends with a lot of my couples (wedding DJ) because we worked so closely together…I became invested in the couple and event emotionally and made it a point to care about them and advocate for them at every point. See Forrest Gump carrying Bubba out of the Vietnam jungle…sometimes getting through the ceremony and reception is like that and you become bonded by trauma 😂

Always hated when certain couples did not make it…but lots of times the ones who are just a pleasure to work with take care of each other and stay together.