Asklemmy

There needs to be a mandatory parenting training course if you're expecting a child.

I like this in theory. But I know in practice some idiots will always manage to get their hands on the curriculum.

In the UK we almost have this in something called NCT (National Childbirth Tr. .. ust).

It's not compulsory and most only do it for their first but you're kinda so shit scared that most tend to do it.

The knowledge is good but getting a close network of 5 other couples having a baby within a month of each other is invaluable...for the mums, the dad's are shit at keeping in touch typically lol

I agree with sentiment, but as stated that's just eugenics with extra steps. By controlling the cost, availability and/or accessibility of the course, you control who can have children. Also how are you going to enforce this policy, forced abortions?

Better imo to make childrearing a part of the school curriculum with a highly encouraged refresher course later on. That achieves the same end without risking peoples liberties.

I sometimes tell my kids about things I was taught, and survival habits I picked up in the "dad qualification program". I based the idea of the program on a brief description of air force officer survival training in the book The Hatchet, and a generous dose of imagination. The kids have never questioned it.