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[–] [email protected] 135 points 5 days ago (30 children)

It's such a dichotomy. Women get catcalled every day and feel uncomfortable and harassed. Understandable. The average man gets catcalled a handful of times in his life and cherishes those moments almost as much as their children's births.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 days ago (7 children)

I think the difference is that this isn't catcalling. If women's compliments towards men were the same as men's compliments towards women, I think men would also dislike it. Don't get me wrong, I recognize that men don't get compliments often, and often they stick with them, but generally those are complements and not catcalls.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago (6 children)

If women’s compliments towards men were the same as men’s compliments towards women, I think men would also dislike it.

Nah.

Every time I've ever heard of an experiment where indignant women do/say to men the exact same things that they hate getting from men, they're always astonished to see the men's reactions as practically universally positive:

If the goal of the experiment was to make men feel the weird combination of creeped-out and ashamed that comes with everyday objectification, then the experiment failed. Instead, these fellas look flattered and expectant. You can practically see them plotting the nearest route to the cheapest hotel.

[–] jballs 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Lol

“I want to destroy your dick,” SJ Son whispers into the ear of an unknown man as she walks by.

Yeah 99% of dudes I know would be ecstatic to hear a woman whisper that to them on the street.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

I'd just be so fucking confused.

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