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After my long relationship (7+), i started dating again. Unfortunately i discovered that no one is looking for a meaningful connection or a serious conversation. Everyone wants to catered and be heard, no one wants to listen for just a second. I actively stopped myself from flirting/dating anymore, itβs just a complete waste of time π€·ββοΈim sorry to say many many many girls are VERY VERY superficial people.
Imo that's just people in general, most have a lot of issues they want to talk through and don't have people to talk with. After seeing about 9000 online profiles with "pamper me" or "over 6 ft or don't message" I get the feeling though :>
Try being a single dad on the dating scene. It's like a yellow star on my shoulder everywhere my profile goes. For fucks sake, even had single mom's tell me they don't date single dads. Legit had a woman tell me I'm cute, but having a kid is a dealbreaker due to her not wanting "baggage." Says the person resorting to online dating.
Thankfully, I found someone and been out of the game for the past 5ish years or so. I can only imagine how much more superficial it all is now.
Brutal, yeah I usually skip over people who have those weird qualifiers just out of principle, like yeah maybe this is a negative to you but you're gonna write off a whole person for that? There are so many amazing people that they'll never meet just because of some random "dealbreaker."