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Honestly, I get it's a green text, but this is pretty easily explained. First off: dating is fucking expensive, and unfortunately standard gender roles means the dude foots the bill most of the time. Yes times are changing, but that's still pretty standard. Pair that with the fact that dudes usually have to make the first move (again, old gender standards) and the fact that social media adds another layer of risk of being ridiculed or making someone viral because they were 'crimge' or 'gave the girl the ick' and it's a pretty stacked deck. Hell, point one is such a strong weigh in that it's enough to explain all of it. People are more broke than ever, and if dating by default involves going out, well guess that date isn't going to happen.
Not an excuse for most Lemmy users. Most American Lemmy users make far more than the average American. I have seen Lemmy users legit bitch that they only make $80K a year. That's more than I ever made a year in my entire working life. And I never had a problem dating.
It's a personality issue, not a money issue.
I'm doing my part in dragging down the average, but tech salaries are quite good
Yeah, I definitely wish I would have went that route when I was younger. I'm retired now, so I can't complain, but I could have a lot more cool shit if I would have made more money! lol