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A few weeks ago i was walking my dog around 11pm, and a driver jokingly did a brake torque as we were crossing the street. He was maybe 3 feet away from us.

After yelling at each other, he threatened to kill me and my dog the next time he saw us. As I pulled my camera he peeled out and hurled a racial comment my way. Sadly, there was so much movement i couldnt get the plate, and i didnt get anything that happened before that on camera.

So I got a body cam to wear for all my walks. Unfortunately, this is not the only time people have been racist and threatened my life so I’m just tired of it and hoping it might encourage people to behave. Feels lame, but it does provide some comfort. Does anyone else do the same?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What, carry a knife do you can stab a car?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Knife, pepper spray, taser, air gun, brass knuckles, monkey fist... There's lots of options if you can't or don't want to carry a gun. But you unless you can fight, you shouldn't go unarmed.

This is assuming OP is in the US. Right now they should be taking any racially-charged threats very seriously, as fascists are becoming more and more emboldened. If OP's aggressor decides to escalate things and get physical, camera isn't going to do much when the police and the courts are on the other side, anyway. Other than make for a really depressing snuff film.

Unless OP lives in a civilized country. In which case, maybe keep a really good flashlight with you on your walks, too.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

til what a monkey fist is

And thanks, i've dealt with this my entire life watching others just walk by and say nothing. So, at this point, it's just getting tiresome.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (3 children)

If the police and courts are stacked against you having a weapon is just going to increase your jail sentence.

Ask any minority in the US about that.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago

That's a fair point.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

But if its either prison or getting lynched by a white supremacist, you shouldn't go down without a fight.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Violence is never the answer.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 19 hours ago

Maybe, but sometimes you don't get to decide that. Sometimes, somebody else makes that choice for you.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I’m a pacifist so it doesn’t matter if you think it’s a fair point or not.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Does the truth matter to you? It matters to me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

Violence and truth are not mutually exclusive things so I don’t see why that matters.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Do you mean violent statements are not true statements? If a person says, "I'm gonna break your legs because you didn't pay me," is that statement untrue because it is violent? Or perhaps do you mean that violence and truth are independent of one another, that violence is a quality of actions and truth is a quality of statements, that they are not inclusive of each other in that way? Or should I take the surface-level interpretation and say that truth is not compatible with violence- that being violent negates truth in some way and being truthful prevents violence?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Violence and truthfulness are independent of each other.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago

I'm gonna leave it here for tonight, SMCF. It's been nice chatting.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

True. But it's either that, or whatever the racist yokel intercepting you on your next walk has in store for you.

With one option, you get a public defender, at the very least. The other option, your next of kin gets a really somber phone call. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.